Hey there, ive tried to make sense of all of this and my friends could help me to sort this out, so i come here, you guys have more experience and insights about women handling and all that stuff.

in short, i recently met a girl. we meet, we kissed, we meet more, we sexed up (third date, it was in my home), then i lost her. Shes kinda pissed at me. She doesnt even want a friendship. All contact lost. However she still has me in facebook


heres some background (its copy pasted, from a convo):

"shes 21 im 33
we met at new years eve. i dropped my email, we meet, we kiss. we meet we kiss more. she comes to my home, i fuck her senseless (such a hottie). we chat a bit more and then she becomes detached. now shes gone.
her relationship with her mother is kinda freaky. she tells her everything she does, including the sex, specially the sex, describes every action performed. then the mother tells everyone. everyone knows now in her house how i fuck. i know that because thats the house of a friend, he told me how it all unveiled.
the mother finds me old and a horny guy, a playa, etc.
she watches a lot of anime. plays lol. spends a lot of time in her house. reads a lot, but has the body of a suicide girl (the hot thin big titted and big assed ones)

my friend says the mother manipulated her doubts into certainties, so she now is pissed at me and doesnt want any contact.

my theory is that i made too obvious the "i just want to fuck you" scheme. i was just fucking horny and started asking when was she getting to spend a night here. the fucking was kinda rough too, not special for special girl, but pure raw fucking with like 12 positions and hard thrusting"


thats it. i want her back, i liked her, a lot
any ideas? ask me any questions about this ill give you the details

cheers

by the way, first she got cold and stopped answering then she asked "what i wanted" and i did the dumb thing of telling her that i wanted something serious, so she told me she wasnt up for anything serious. then i sent her a msg trying to mend at least the "friendship" (she seems kinda pissed off).. then she told me she doesnt want anything and that she didnt feel what i felt, no "chemistry" that i was talking about, just "good vibes".... the thing is she pushed for the first kiss, and she was DEFINITELY and totally into the sex we had, she was uberwet and she was awesomely passionate all the time... then something happened into her mind and, well, we're like we are right now

Well, I am relatively new her as well, but from what I can tell, it seems like there are a couple things which you could do in this situation. From what it sounds like, at this point, you don't have too much going for you. No offence, it just sounds like the whole situation is going downhill.

There is hope though. I honestly would just flat out be honest with her. Say that you originally wanted to be with her for sex (even if you just wanted to get to know her or some shit) and now you just wanna hang out some more and see what happens. Say that you just want to get to know her better or something. From what you are saying, the girl sounds like she knows what she wants.

If you both enjoyed the sex, and she was just not using you as some sort of fling, then you are on the right track. I would personally invite her to your house, but at the same time trying to make the situation completely comfortable for her. If you two connected on something when you talked (both liked anime or some shit) use that to your advantage. The staying inside and reading books thing makes me say that the girl is kinda introverted, which I can't really tell from the post though. The talking about sex to her mother seems a little bit weird/out of character from the other details described, but again it's hard to tell.

Like I said before, just go for the honesty approach. If it is as bad as you think it is then you have nothing left to lose, right? Use your better judgement, and most of all, play it cool. Do not say what you think she will want to hear, and make sure to show some redeemable qualities.

Again, I am new, but this is my two cents. Don't hold me accountable if this causes a situation to (somehow) get worse. (By the way, this girl sounds hot as fuck. Bangin' body+anime+league=dreamgirl haha)

Prayin' for you man. Best of luck.

Yeah youre right on track, i feel too that i dont have much going here, i just asked if anyone could revert a similar situation.

Shes all that i described, very attached to the mother, introverted, super hot yet petite, shes like a rare gem, she spends all day laying at bed watching anime and playing videogames and her body is firm as fuck, and she has 0% fat, her face is delicate and beautiful. She did martial arts at a time, for years. Shes a trained girl. Jesus.

i dont think its a good idea to get to talk to her right now, already tried the honesty path and she didnt even wince. any other ideas?