Met a HB8 back in December - London - on the 20th to be exact. We were at club, I pulled her, danced, had a great time. She took me back to hers.

She's 31, I'm 26.

We had great sex, three times in fact. Twice during the evening and once in the morning.

I made her orgasm multiple times, which was great; and i could tell it was one of the best night she's ever had - due to al the noise.

She was loud (sorry to be explicit)

She was pretty bad at giving a blow job and her hand job was even worse for a 31 year old.

She kept on saying, I was amazing and perfect so kind of building her up.

That's when I dropped a bombshell on her saying that I'm not interested in being in a relationship with anyone, was I'm completely career focused right now which is true; and prefer being independent anyway.

After my statement, she called me her BFF.

Later that afternoon - so 21st Dec - she was flying to her parents in Ireland for Xmas followed by a trip to Thailand - arrived back on the 18th.

We've been texting each other since, this is how are convos have been going....

21st Dec:

Me: Safe and sound at home. Phone charged. Cup of tea whilst checking out today's headlines. Enjoyed hanging out with you, as fun! You're definitely someone I'd like to get to know more. Hope you have a safe trip! Bon voyage xo Andre Ward (not my real name by the way)

Her: BFF. In the airport having a pint in the hope it will help me feel normal again. Also reliving this morning in my head helps aren't we lucky we met. Happy Christmas and see your gorgeous face in the new year x

Me: Yep I've been drinking since 3. Good ole hair of the dog has done the trick. Mulled wine particularly - LOVE. This morning was great and glad to have spent it with someone as awesome as you. Looking forward to seeing you on the other side of the year x

9th Jan

Her: Annnnnnnndree Warrd happy new year! How's your beautiful face? I'm just chilling on the beach watching the sunset. Thailand is flipping awesome x

Me: Hello sunshine I'll trump you, as of right now sat at my office desk staring at a computer screen and have about a million things on my plate to do! Believe me when I say that I'm having the best day ever and don't wish I was sat on a beach sunning myself. I'm not jealous of you at all

10th Jan

Her: Wow wok now I'm jealous... a computer... haven't sat in front of one of those in weeks haha

13th Jan

Me: Haha now you're just rubbing it in. Anyway you could be completely fibbing right now about being in this so called luxurious destination. Send over a pic?! I want to see this "supposed" amazing scenery for myself ha x

16th Jan

Her: Sorry that was mean. If it's any consolation today is my last day booo. But since you asked for a pic...

Her: Damn it won't let me send! Find my instagram... blah blah blah

17th Jan

Me: Checked the pic, looks lovely, and what's more forgot how amazing you are so nice to get that reminder. Hopefully we'll be seeing each other soon.


Now, I'm confused as I haven't heard from her in six days since she returned. I can honestly say that I don't have oneitis, I just find it hard to understand why she hasn't reached and want to know why. At least through knowing, I can improve my game and to ensure whatever I did wrong doesn't happen again - if anyone can provide any insight that'd be much appreciated?

Hey mate. I can tell you right now the 1st thing that jumped at me was you seem to be trying really hard. Even if you're not that's how you're txts come off. My main rule of txt game is keep it short light and sensual and leave her wanting more. Advice I got from another poster on here. You sent long texts that complimented her which isn't really a bad thing, but you left no mystery what you want her thinking is does he like me I wonder what he's doing now damn I really like this guy I should call him tonight he hast texted me in 2 days. Instead the roles a reveresed you showed your hand she thinks oh I've got this guy hooked I can text/call anytime he'll answer me. Women like to be challenged you presented no challenge for her so what I'd personally do if you havet talked to her for a few days is text her open with the I'm divorcing you routine. Have a convo then set something up be concise about it that's something your previous texts lacked kinda like oh I hope I see you soon sort of vibe, but nothing concise set a day and time. Make sure you lead her.

This is how I would do it. Open divorce routine (for challenge) she'll go along with it role play a bit and tease her fairly hard, but keep it playful. Say something like I haven't seen you in so long I can't begin to imagine how much you miss me!! She'll likely give a joking response then set up a date be confident,direct and concise. That will help her see you in a new light.

Hope that helps good luck!!