Hi guys!
Im thinking of going 1 year without orgasm and wanted to see if anybody wanna join? I know this might sound crazy but there is some logic behind it. After being in the game for a while and having had sex with numerous girls I feel like Ive failed and lost my goal.

I first entered seduction to boost my ego (unconsciously). I wanted to be able to get any girl I wanted and make sure that no girl would ever be able to hurt me. After that I, like many others, got into inner game and realized that this was bigger then seduction. Deep down all I wanted was to be happy and to experience true love. (For me the effort of ONS isnt worth the price anymore)

It went pretty well, but not optimal. Heres why and why I got this idea. When I have the option to have sex Im not as selective as I could be and also theres more concerns about having sex instead of getting to know that person. Let me explain that a bit more. Have you opened or dated a girl that you´re not really really into just for the lack of something better? IMO that takes away the focus, time and opportunities of what I think most of us really want and is looking for. And it also lowers our self-image and self-respect unconsciously.

The second thing is that by thinking of sex we miss the whole point and it also removes alot of the passion and intimacy that we can build up without sex. As for masturbation/porn there is enough proves of why its not optimal to masturbate.

So my goal for 1 year is to only look for, talk to and date the girls that Im really into. Before I didnt really know what I was looking for so it was to no surprise that I didnt find it. And by decluttering my mind and giving up what is not so important there might be more space, time, drive and energy for what is important. Im not saying that this is the best way to go, but I think its pretty good when you´ve reached beyond the ONS stage, and when you dont want to settle for anything but the best. I guess that this road can be very hard and challenging and thats why I wanna see if anyone else is interested to join so we can push each other through the hard times and learn from each other.

Why not just get into a relationship for a while....?

I like sex. 1 year with out sex would probably make me go bat shit crazy. No thank you.

Hope it works out for you man, but I'm gonna pass.

i tried not jerking off for 1 month, after the month i found myself attracted to almost anything, fat chicks, ugly chicks, warm apple pie (lol).

....it wasnt a proud moment in my life haha

Just start at the bottom and work your way up. I divorced my wife and them hit the clubs like a caged animal. I fucked anyone. Milfs, cougars, fat chicks (booty), hot chicks on good nights. Then I'd start seeing some of them regularly for sex. But I still wanted more. I gradually started screening out the fat chicks and gamed only the hot girls I found the most attractive, with only the occasional hot cougars and milfs. But I have never stopped approaching ugly chicks, fat chicks, old chicks or other dudes, because they are useful for social monentum early in the night. You can bounce off the ugly chicks and dudes and into a hot set nearby. The key to pickup is not giving a fuck. Hanging out with dudes and ugly chicks early in the night does not stop me pulling hotties at the end of the night. Because I'm simply there to amuse myself, not maintain a fake ego image of myself. Many other dudes are "too cool" to talk to fat chicks, but I'm one of the few who doesn't a fuck who sees me. Girls can see I don't just approach hot women. It makes me look super social and non-judgemental. Not judging women and making it clear that you never judge is the key to game, especially if you are pursuing / seeing more than one girl at once or fucking a girl who has a boyfriend.

Sex is love and love is sex. Sure, there's more to it than that, but trust me; if you don't fuck your girlfriend often enough, she will find sonebody else to fuck her.

Lovely plan. Good luck.