Good evening PUAS of the world and thanks for reading.





Could anybody give me some examples on statements of intent and interest and how to build them ? (The principles behind the idea)






Opinions are very welcomed

An SOI (Statement of Intent/Interest) is pretty simple and straightforward.

All it involves is directly communicating that you're interested in her.

For example:

"I like you."
"You're sexy."
"I want to bang you."

An SOI is just one tool to use out of many for a PUA to construct the entire seduction overall. For instance, using an SOI and a neg one after another creates the "push/pull" thing.

Hey chief and thanks for your kind reply !





I do think the SOI are a big key to improving (my) results, nevertheless my ego-pride seems to block me from getting too direct....... any suggestions on how i can care less ?

do it slowly. be a bit more direct in every interaction. and if you do it often enough and with many girls, you just stop caring and do it just for the sake of doing it, if nothing else.

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You've just touched on a huge and important concept when it comes to learning pickup.

Your ego will always be the greatest obstacle to your success.

I'm impressed that you're actually self-aware enough to identify exactly what your ego is telling you! This tells me you have plenty of potential.

If you want to keep getting better and better, a good rule of thumb to follow is to always do exactly the OPPOSITE of what your ego tells you.

As for the best ways to use SOIs, I actually teach a lot of ways to use SOIs effectively (and sexually) in the second month of my Seductive Introvert program. I'll tell you one really simple way right now, though:

You know how I said "You're sexy" is an example of an SOI in my first response? Using the word "sexy" does a lot of things for you. It subcommunicates sexual confidence, for one.

Just saying "You're sexy" is a great SOI, but it's pretty bland, isn't it? One thing I and a lot of other PUAs do is to say that something specific about her is sexy. It's a very delicious compliment!

"Your eye makeup looks so sexy today!"

If you want to go the extra mile, use the word "sexy" to compliment her on something that people wouldn't normally think of as "sexy."

"There's just something so sexy about the way you point your feet at me when we sit and talk..."

I'll always give good info on the forum, but my best stuff is already in my Seductive Introvert program, and you're more than welcome to try it out risk-free.