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 Post subject: How did I handle it?
PostPosted: Tue Jan 21, 2014 4:53 pm 
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Im'm stuck in the friendzone with a girl. Tried being more sexual, it did not work. Freezing is out of the question because we are on the same class and it's not like I can just ignore her.

I have been trying to keep it on a casual/civil level, acting alpha, ignoring her frequently outside class and giving a few emotional rollercoater rides. Basically I am at a standstill for a few months.

It is basically a cold turkey situation. A girl I would have already nexted if I was not with her everyday.

Today a guest speaker came to our class. We are on an informatics course and she is always chatting with me via a msn like program we have installed on our terminals. The speaker was a guy from a company she wants to work for and apparently she considered him atractive. This is the msn thing conversation:

she: «I'm in love. Can't wait until I work for *company*»
me: «If you want to work for them you should try to "go up the ladder horizontaly", if you know what I mean» trying to act like I don't give a damn.
she: «mmm... Good idea!»
me: «my level of respect for you is like an elevator. Permanently going up and down. Guess wich sub-basment that coment just pot you in» lowering her value...
she: «come on! Don't be like that :cry: »

Again, I don't expect much from her, but I can't exactly next her since we spend 6 hours a day together and I am kind of the guy she is closer to in college.

How would you guys have played it? I pondered the option of simply not answering, but I think that would have shown insecurity.


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 Post subject: Re: How did I handle it?
PostPosted: Tue Jan 21, 2014 7:00 pm 
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Man, you are in the LJBF pit. By now you should have either ignored her completely or pawned her and used her as bait for when you attend college parties or whatever. You could use a cute girl on your arm when you roll into a party, even if you are just friends. If you pawn her, you shouldn't care anymore what she says and who she wants to bang...


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 Post subject: Re: How did I handle it?
PostPosted: Tue Jan 21, 2014 7:56 pm 
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You could use a cute girl on your arm when you roll into a party, even if you are just friends

This ^^^^


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 Post subject: Re: How did I handle it?
PostPosted: Tue Jan 21, 2014 9:58 pm 
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she: «I'm in love. Can't wait until I work for *company*»
me: «If you want to work for them you should try to "go up the ladder horizontaly", if you know what I mean» trying to act like I don't give a damn.
she: «mmm... Good idea!»
me: «my level of respect for you is like an elevator. Permanently going up and down. Guess wich sub-basment that coment just pot you in» lowering her value...
she: «come on! Don't be like that :cry: »
this conversation leads to nowhere. Cut off and game other girls. Or if your game is tight, you could try again. But better find new one


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 Post subject: Re: How did I handle it?
PostPosted: Wed Jan 22, 2014 3:56 pm 
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Thank you all for the replies, but all that is pretty much a given fact.

Of course I am, as you say, pawning her. And I have nexted her as much as I can. If we do not see each other everyday I would have cut all contact by now and try again some time from now. But since we spend several hours a day together it's not like I can say "I'm not talking to you anymore because you did not let me fuck you". I do not pay attention to her if I have something better to do and do not let her get in the way of me gaming other girls. If any, it even helps, since I have replied to texts from her when I was with another girl, making sure she saw I was texting a hot girl.

What I want to know is, on that specific situation or any similar situation of the "he's so cute" kind, what is the most efective response?

Again, thank you all.


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 Post subject: Re: How did I handle it?
PostPosted: Wed Jan 22, 2014 4:32 pm 
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Just ignore. You dont have to respond to a msg and you dont have to reply to a text. If you want to cut contact, cut contact. You're in a class together; you're not obligated to talk to anyone.


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