Hey guys here's what's up. Just to make it clear I'm not big on stealing a guys gf and if they were a happy couple I wouldn't touch the issue.

With that being said here's the story.
There was a guy that came out to a party he was a loner and had no friends being a nice guy I invited him to hang out with us. Guy turned out to be an asshole and tried to rip me off so I told him to fuck off and so did all my friends.

Last saturday I'm hanging out at the bar and this girl comes up I knew her from school took me a second to guess her name, but she was all over me hugging touching her body language alone said she was dtf. Then I saw she's with that loser I planned to steal her right in front of him (dick move I know, but so is trying to steal money from me) but I fucked up and came in too intense the guy started mouthing off I didn't react to that, but she stepped in thinking there was gonna be a fight I just left. The next day she adds me on fb and likes a bunch of my fight pics. Turns out she's a boxing and mma nut.

I'm not overly experienced when it comes to stealing a guys gf like I said normally I wouldn't, but the guys a low value pot smoking thieving piece of shit and I feel no guilt for taking his gf she's clearly not happy with him so it is my duty to give her the happiness she's looking for if only temporarily lol.

As always any advice is appreciated thanks!!

Got her number? I suppose you can always initiate via FB if not.

I'd prob treat it like the guy doesn't exist. Text or msg away and gauge her interest without mentioning the prick at all. She's done some of the work for you by flirting and adding you to FB.

Do it and don't look back. Just for sure be prepared that this kid might want to fight you lol

Thanks for the advice guys! I don't have her number I'm gaming her on fb for now once I build a bit more comfort I'll get her #. Not to sound too high on myself, but it would not be in that piece of shit's best interest to try and fight me lol.

You don't have to "steal" her. Just give her the option of "choosing the better guy" and that's it. You're not doing anything wrong by being better than someone else.

Here's an update for anyone that's interested. I was talking to her today as I was talking to her my interest level went to zero, but I planted a seed so we'll see where it goes from here, but I'm not gonna put any effort into pursuing. Her. At the moment I'm talking 6 other girls all high value girls and have dates lined up with 3 of them. The seed is planted she knows what's up that's where I'm gonna leave it.

Are you sure they are BF and GF, as in "serious relationship" ??

It sounds like maybe they were just together for that night, Im not sure. Point is you cant just assume they are serious.

I suggest that if you like the girl you fuck her, but do it for the right reasons. Do it cause you like her or think she's hot or you just love fucking chicks.

Don't do it just to get back at the guy, cause that is too much negativity for you to be carrying around. Just forget that guy...and then decide if you want to fuck the girl or not, purely based on her merits, as if you never saw her with that guy.

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Let her do the work. Every time she makes an ioi remind her she's got a boyfriend, keep doing so until she outright says 'fuck him'.

Going after a girl with a BF imo is a bad move.. all the attraction you build up can easily be forgotten after a night of intimacy with her man. You risk being a bit on the side and nothing more.

thanks for the input guys I appreciate it. I found out a little more about this girl and I'm totally 100% not interested in her or even talking to her anymore. Even if she called me up and wanted me to come over and fck her I'd take a pass. I deleted her off fb maybe a dick move, but I don't want her to be able to contact me as I was given stern warning she has a crazy side and isn't afraid to show it.

So onward to bigger and better things!