so met this chick...she is a HB7 and on the date she avoided physical contact at all then she tells me she will wait till marriage and that she has never even kissed a guy..So i go home with the intention of deleting her number..then one of my boys who is a big time player told me she is lying and he himself hit her a couple of times.he doesnt lie and he is a big time player and he hosts parties like crazy get laid big time so it is logical that he is honest...so my question is why would a chick lie that big time? and why is it that my pal saw a different side to her than the one i saw? why did he see her freaky side and why did i see her holy side? she even refused to kiss me my God...she made me look dumb...i feel embarassed...what should i do about this? i am asking my pal but his answers are vague...i want to prevent this information gap in future interaction....your advice brothers..

She didn't like you...and she liked him.

i asked why a girl would show her sexual side to one guy and show a completely different side to another....and she was a compulsive liar she will insist on anything until you believe she will even beg you to believe.

As I said, she liked him, so wanted to have sex with him. She didn't like you so didn't want to sleep with you, so told you bs.

From your threads you're doing something wrong consistently. Girl's aren't finding you attractive. May be your looks or personality. Look at these things, be honest with yourself and improve them. Get feedback on here about your looks, fashion and how normal interactions go for you.

She sees him as a lover... She sees you as a provider.

Saying she's waiting until marriage is the story telling you so you don't get upset.

thanks guys for your replies.