Hi guys. I have a huge problem. For you to understand here's some background information.

I got introduced to the PUA- community about a year ago. Like many of you i simply copied every letter of the mystery method at the beginning. Since last fall I been building my own set of routines with a core of solid alpha male game.

But here's the thing, hooking up with women's is not even the slightest problem for me. At least when I'm at the club. But as soon as it comes to meeting up with them later or take contact with them after i got them to bed.
I pretty much suck.

I feel like after being this super-alpha/badboy at the club I'm a total AFC when it comes to further contact.

Any suggestions on how to progress from a kiss close to one-nightstand and from one-nightstand to a relationship?
I can't find any tips or solutions to this problem.

A club environment is brimming with sexual energy so k-closing becomes an extension of dancing, I treat it like a handshake. Getting it to progress to a 1 night stand I feel depends a lot on what you do before the k close. If a girl wants to get laid when she goes out then she will, so the ball is in her court. Act like a man, if you want to dance then go dance with her, if you want a drink them she's getting a drink. Assume you guys are going home together and act like it.

should be named one-nightstand to a fucked up relationship because its called a one-night stand for a reason.

i have pretty much given up on trying to relationship girls from one night stands, because i know if i fuck them that night, it maybe someone else's turn the week after. look elsewhere if you want girls that are relationship material

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Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your character, and your character becomes your destiny.

I know that you maybe not will find the best girlfriend material in a club. But anyway it's a shame to not be able to sleep with good looking girls more than once if you live in the same town as them.

whats the shame about? girls are Plenty. where i live, we're not short of Good looking Local and Traveling girls to get with. Girlfriend material to me is someone that i can get to know thats connected with their heart. Regardless of what anyone says, you dont get to see those traits after a one-night stand. its too sexually charged and girls are fucking ruthless. so i've learnt to detatch myself from any false hope

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Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your character, and your character becomes your destiny.

Unfortunately I live in a medium size city and the girl pool isn't that big really.

Of course it's a bad idea to get emotionally attached to a bitch. Been there done that, never want to experience it again.

The only reason i want to know these things is control. I want to be in total control over all the interactions i have with the opposite sex.


I now that it's impossible to have absolutely 100% in success rate with all the women you speak with.

But you always want to increase your odds. Right?