So before I get into this, let me just say, this is not being friend-zoned. This is much worse. The techniques to get out of the friend zone wouldn't even work here just cause of how deep in the brother zone I am.

So the reason I am brother-zoned with this girl is cause I didn't care at first. I liked her friend and I thought having her as a close friend would be beneficial to me. I ended up getting over her friend, but I got REALLY into her. Since we were already so close and every attempt at me using game with her failed, I decided to be honest and tell her how I felt. All she said was "thank you for telling me" and hugged me. The next day, I decided to ask her on a date, saying "I want you to see how I am when I'm not with our group of friends and when it's just you and me." Again, she said "Let me think about it." I already knew what that meant and her friends told me that she just didn't know how to say no.

I'm really close with her friends and what they've told me is that she's said that I'm like a brother to her and she can't see me as more than a friend and she said and I quote "Ewww, no that's just ughh like I can't even imagine me going out with [him] because there is no way I'll ever look at him as more than a friend." She's even said that she finds the idea of us doing romanic stuff disgusting and creepy.

LET ME JUST SAY – I didn't even know I was this deep in the brother zone a week ago cause she would always be so touchy with me, cuddle with me, sit on my lap, hold hands, walk with our arms around each other, let me take off her bra (as a joke) and I even tried kissing her once with the pretense of a joke, but she just laughed, even though our lips did touch for a while (the joke was to take a picture of us doing it) and she didn't respond to me trying to actually make out with her while we were "kissing." I also gave her a hickie just to fuck with her cause she'd never gotten one before, so i just decided to do it and she let me.

So yeahh.... I'm pretty deep in there.......

Now, WHAT THE FUCK DO I DO???!!! I can't even make her jealous cause I feel like if I hook up with another girl, she'll just be happy for me.

Honestly, I'm willing to try anything right now. I wouldn't LIKE to create distance between me and this group of friends (I actually enjoy hanging out with them), but if that's the only way to get out of the brother zone, I'd do it.

ANY SUGGESTIONS/ADVICE WILL BE TAKEN!!!! (Except "give up." I don't give up.)

ok there are 2 approaches of getting out of this that i know of....when i was 19 i had this girl i liked who was only 16....i knew it was wrong so i acted like a friend with her and put myself in the friend zone, BUT I GOT so deep in the friend zone that she saw me as a older brother. here's what i did to get out of it, and a way my friend got out the brother zone with his now current gf

1. basically you have to ease into the romantic vibe, right now when she sees you, you are just a brother to her. try spending more time together alone and actually try to set that vibe by doing more sexual things.....NOW THIS IS THE THING MOST PEOPLE GET WRONG....EASE INTO IT meaning its not a one day thing, its going to take work, start off by always standing or sitting close to her and giving ALOT of eye contact, don't be as playful, and anytime you get a chance be as confident as you can with anything you do. touch her (not in a super sexual way but don't do friendly touches) read her body language and if she lets you do more then take that chance...basically do everything you would do to get out the friendzone but don't make it as obvious

2. is to just stopall contact with her, she will miss you especially if she see's yout as her brother.....psychologically missing somebody is a mountain... she will basically miss you more and more untill she reaches that peak then she will miss you less and less until you're almost completely forgotten about. basically its agame of chance to try to get abck in contact with her right around he rpeak and start being more romantic and sexual


i don't know if these will work for you but i know number 1 worked for me and number 2 worked for my friend and he has her as his gf now..

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What traits in other men have you noticed she seems to be attracted to?
There is your start.

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oh and since you're her brother you must know what she likes in other guys.....basically start to act liek those traits. and she will start to like you more and more

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In regards to hooking up with other girls while she's around, would you recommend that?

Sounds like you already have enough touching with this girl so i don't think more will help.

My advice, forget about getting her. Give up on it and see her as a sister. Improve yourself and find someone you'll like better. You can still hang out with her and be a friend, but if your feelings for her stop you from meeting other girls then pull back on that. If there's any chance of getting her, it wouldnt be when you're trying to but when you have stuff and women in your life.

This is never harmful. How much it helps... it's hard to say. I mean, I would basically categorize you in relation to her, the way I would categorize a fat friend. Do I care one little bit if she hooks up with some dude in front of me? No. If he was much better looking than her, I may even cheer her on a little. But it isn't going to make me jealous, because there is *zero* attraction there.

If she is attracted to you, then it will help. If she's really correct when she says she feels nothing for you... it won't help at all.

That said, you do need to be dating other women. "In front of her" is of questionable value. But dating other girls will make it easier to get this one, even if she never sees them, just because it keeps you from becoming desperate.

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