Ok I posted earlier about this girl but new developments have made me seek advice again. The short version is this. I was always friends with a girl from my high school(graduated a decade ago). We worked together when we were in school and she was always REALLY into me as per her signs and her friends constantly telling me. I never made a move as I was young and dumb and had other options and she always had a boyfriend. We went to the same college and hung out some but not as much as in high school.

Cut to 5 years later and she moved back in town to be with her boyfriend who lives here. Her boyfriend is a dumbass and not your typical alpha dumbass but a real loser who verbally abuses her in front of people and constantly cheats on her and is an alcoholic. They have been together a few years. I ran into a few months ago and she talked my leg off, she seemed liked she didn't want the conversation to end. During the conversation I mentioned I heard she had recently bought a house and asked her if her and the boyfriend were renovating it, but she just kept mentioning herself and never spoke of her dude, which I took as a sign she is still a little into me?

So she works for the same business as me but we are in different offices in different building so we never see each other, except for yesterday. We had a company wide meeting so during a break a spotted her and went up to see how she was doing. The conversation was very casual as there were 4 or 5 other coworkers sitting at her table, but she mentioned how an old friend had just moved back into town and that we should all hang out one night. She said to facebook her but I told her I wasn't on facebook any longer( I would have gotten her number and probably should have but many people were there so a bitched out) anyway she said to get a hold of our mutual friend and get her number and let her know when I was free to meet up. She wants to group meetup.

My question is how to play this. I will defintiely get her number off a mutual friend but I'm not sure where to go from there. Should I text her explicitly for a meetup with our mutual friend or do some light texting before hand then suggest a meetup between us two. She is also one of those girls that ALWAYS has a boyfriend so I know she won't let go of one branch before grabbing onto another. So I feel like I should so signs of interest, meetup, run game, kino and see how it goes from there? Any advice?

I don't know if this will help you I have done the same but not as a close friend for years.

I met this girl she's in a relation ship with his boyfriend for 2 years
took me 3 months to got them separated though cause she really loved her bf.
but I think it will be easier for you.

things I did.

1. Never lost contact even for a day even a simple "how are you?" is ok even if she doesn't respond
2. Don't bring up her bf in a conversation, get personal ask about her sister, mom etc.
3. Sometimes I act helpless and she comforts me, well it's all lies though like **I was completely drunk last night I got mugged** or when she asked "how are you ?" I usually respond like this "I'm ok but I't's better with you around" then get the convo going.
4. watch out for silly mistakes that she make like tripping or dropping a pen; look at her, when she makes a face laugh at her but not in a mean way and just whisper to her "cute or adorable" stuff like that
5. Make her feel that your always there for her even if hell break loose.
6. get intimate e.g grabbing her hands while crossing the streets, when you've been seeing each other for a while kiss her cheeks when saying your goodbyes. you'll eventually end up kissing her lips and do it.

7. Unsure about the results, my result was her bf broke up with her since she told him that we had sex.
my problem now is she still loves her bf and put me in the friend zone

Good luck man !

I really hope you haven't been crushing on one girl for 5 years, that is weak and there tons of girls out there.

Now for you, BadHeat....so you wasted 3 months of your life to make a girl cheat on her bf that she really loves?? Wowww, stupid stupid stupid. Not only is that immoral, but what he decided to try to kill you? Would it really be worth it?? Start thinking with your head instead of your dick from now on

No I haven't been crushing on her for 5 years which is why I never made a move. Now though I want to at least sleep with her, maybe more? Not looking for any negativity, just real solutions on what should be my next move? Thanks Batheat for the reply, but I don't see this girl and probably won't unless I get her number off a friend then meet up with her for drinks with friends? It all seems like a long shot, just trying to increase my odds.