So I'm a senior in high school and the only times I could possibly "talk " to girls is during lunch and after school in the gym. Doing it in class would just be too hard as the teacher's I have are pretty strict.

Lunch:

How might one pick up a girl? Do I just walk up to the girl, use an opener and entertain her then do a number close? Is high school different when picking up girls? Do I ask her number right away or after a few days? These are one of the many hundreds of questions that swirl in my head.

You gotta understand that high school girls don't get that hit on that much, well at least not in my school as they are just a bunch of AFC (including myself, but I will change that soon).

I'm planning to just stop a walking girl that I come across with and start a chat. Unfortunatly my lunch requires us to be sitting down so at best I might get 5 minutes. Lunch is about 30 minutes.

Things to talk about; Would it be bad to ask the girl to sit over "my table"? Do I have to sit over hers? How might I talk to her during the attraction phase?

Or do I have to do the group opener, where I talk to her friends first then ignore her and neg her? I just start winning her friends over and then talk to the girl and isolate her then number close within the same day?



I need like a strategic plan.

At high school there's the problem of group gigglers, which are mega annoying. Try stopping her, and if it goes well she'll tell her mates she'll catch up.
Also with high school you've gotta pin the opener. That's the trickiest bit I guess. Then the table issue. Try to sit on a table on your own with her if there's any free. 'Cuase your mates will be, who's this? unless you have a wingman. Also, her group might make it awkward.
Don't try a number close first time unless your sure she's giving a few IOI's. Maybe just tell her you'll see her around. she might even look you up online. Or talk to her some other time having 'bumped into her'.

Hope it helps.

Aha, I'm in a similar boat.

I'm a Sophomore in highschool, and I run most of my game during lunchtime. Unlike your school though, my school is pretty much an open campus, so you can do what you'd like during lunchtime, rather than stick to just the cafiteria.

The first thing I do, is look for a girl I want to talk to. Cool, now you can take note of her surroundings. Who she's with, what she's doing, etc, etc. The cool thing about HS is that you DON'T have to # close on the first day, because in most cases, you'll get the chance to see the girl again the next time you have lunch. But if you're feeling lucky, sure, you can go in for the # close on day 1.

First open a girl in class. Then at lunch 'randomly' walk by the table she is at say "Hey" w.e w.e, fluff, fluff, blah blah, then sit down and continue the conversation. And after that happens and you feel comfortable and you are getting IOI's, say "We should hang out sometime, I'm going to so and so tonight you should come" If she says 'yea, sure' pull out your phone and get her number.

OK... highschool pickup is tough... well not tough, just different (i'm in highschool too)...
problem one-- everyone cares about wats going on even if they say they dont... those other dozen girls sitting at the the table with your target are going to psychoanalyze EVERYTHING you say the first moment that you are out of earshot of them
problem two-- lunch definitely doesnt give enough time to approach a girl you've never met and number close...

my solution:
1.Build comfort with the GROUP of girls over a period of a week or so... that way, even if they psychoanalyze your actions, they won't try to convince your target that you're bad news... make sure ur still being C&F w/ your target during that time before you're ready to close in some fashion
2.Number closing may take longer due to the fact that highschool girls are more reluctant to do anything... and remember that to a hs girl... making out for a hs girl may be the equivalent of a 4-hour orgy for a 20 something year old... ok... thats a bit of an exaggeration, but i think you get the point...

just remember that you should follow the same principles... look for some IOI's... and if shes giving them to you say something....
"I'm having a bunch of friends over this weekend... you should show up."
"Ok... i think i can"
"How can I get in touch w/ you?"
She gives u #... or something else... maybe her screenname...

Just remember that hs gaming is a little bit different.... but i think a lot of the differences should be obvious.

i'm in high school and i must say DHVing is one of the most important aspects here, and don't forget it. you're in an environment where her friends are and where her reputation has been evolving for 1-4 years, so she'll be careful not to hang with a lower value guy.

I usually approach before class, in the halls, after class, lunch, and after school.

It's hard to approach between classes because of the limited time. But it's possible. I've seen guys gaming girls after the next period initation bell has already rung, making both of them tardy. But if you DHV and prove to her you'll be beneficial to her reputation, and you attract her, books and grades are the last thing on her mind.

Also, I also have a quick technique i'd like to share.

In high school, a group of girls will not hesitate to reject you if you haven't had the best school reputation, or if you're not in their social circle.

to get around this... when I approach a group i don't say "excuse me guys could i ask you guys a question?" because that shows the group that you're a stranger and not in their social circle. BUT if I say "hey guys, get this..." there is a possibility in their minds that you already know a person in their group, making them more hesitant to reject you because it'd be improper for one of the girls to tell her friend's "friend" to "get lost" right? so they subtly may think that you already know someone in the table by opening like that, and it will lower their guard and increase your success rate