Me: If you wanted to know if you were my type, you just had to ask

Her: haha well it's not like i need your conformation that I'm attractive in order for me to think im a good looking person. you've made it clear that you think beauty is common. lots of guys think im hot, and want me.. so what makes you any different from them?



Note; I don't really care to much as to what i say to this girl, i just want a witty ass reply to pull her back down to my frame

You're attracted to me.

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You used the beauty is common line, am I correct?

So she's attempting to assert control by turning it on you with the question about what differentiates you from others.
Obviously its a loaded question I would never answer directly.

What you can do however, is recognize the feeling and need behind it. You call someone out on their insecurities of course they'll react defensively, more often than not.

I don't know what you're looking for, but if I was interested in dating a girl (not just hooking up) I'd likely frame things honestly stating how I value connection (a need) with other people and that in this respect you're probably no different from anyone else (the need for connection is a pretty basic human need).

Your way is too fucking wordy/try hard. You don't get into feelings and destiny and other touchy feely woo-woo stuff, until you're in person.

Have you been reading Zan by any chance?

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This is what happens when instead of meeting up quick, guys try to use text as "game" and do everything over it. When you try to get into these deep qualification type questions and conversations with a girl you haven't slept with over text, you open up the door to fuck things up, say the wrong shit, give her power to reply or ignore, and you lose the non verbals that are necessary to having these type of conversations.

No matter what you try to reply with, it will be wrong. You really need to stop this texting. I would ignore her completely and ask her what she's doing on [insert weekday here, not fri/sat]. Go out with her & close.

You're in a pretty deep nasty hole that you need to get out of. These deep text convos aren't going to get you anywhere.

pffft, a lot of truth above, dodging text game is what you want to do.

but if you want to go the funny guy route:

i'm special because i hold the world record for shooting the most skittles from my ears in one minute and catching them i my mouth. So when are you gonna make me that legendary "hb's name"-steak you promised?

personally a lil text game has always brought great results for me...

I mean you can have her wanting to fuck you even before the first date.. why is this avoided?

I would just respond with "oh... you'll find out."


Why is this such a struggle? Text game is amazing practice for somebody who is new as well. You get extra time to think up clever responses why would you not use that to your advantage????

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I agree with Brandon. Don't give up on the text game but at the sametime don't let her flip it on you. She should be telling you what other good qualities she has besides being another cute face. Keep it fun but don't say too much

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Congrats. You are the only other person to offer a good reply. Better than mine actually

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