Hello. There's a girl that I've known for a few months from a certain club. 3 weeks ago I was with her in a car, nothing serious happened. The first time she kind of taught me to tickle her hand in a certain way. Two days ago, we met again, in a car. This time I was the dominent one - I stroked her on her pants, but extremely close to her lady part, I put my hand under her shirt on her back and slightly to her underwear region, also kind of played with her shoulder strap and her bra's strap.

I had an apparent erection and she obviously didn't care.

Anyway, nothing really serious happened. On our ride home I said that we have a weird relationship, and I made it clear to her that I want sex as I'm not 'emotionally available' for a steady relationship. She said she wants a relationship, and anything else seems like "a waste of time" to her. She said she thought we had 'something romantic' (me sitting with an erection in a car for 3 hours isn't 'romantic', it's almost torture). I don't wanna be her BF, she hasn't got the boxes ticked (HB7 at least, smart, charming and energetic are my 'requirements'). But I do want to fuck her, preferably, on an occasional basis. Is there any way to overcome this gap? BTW, I'm 19, and she's probably something like 19-23 but won't say.

you have plenty of options...

you could lie to her.. and play the relationship game... bang her as much as you want then leave... but that would require some commitment you don't want to tie yourself down to.

you could hold your ground and keep trying to physically escalate... but I would bail out if she doesn't put out after the 3rd date.


You could stop talking to her if she doesn't put out like you lost interest... if she's sexually attracted enough chances are she will be running back to you.


remember attraction isn't a choice... if she's attracted to you she may be able to bend her "rules". Women need to be pleased too.

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So I guess I'll wait about three weeks and ask her out.

Just a little question - if she asks me out first (both times she initiated everything) - should I say "no" just to make her more eager for me, than ask her the week after? Or should I agree if she asks?

bump.

Don't say no, pick a date and time and ask if she's free on the day (so she know that she can only see you three weeks later.)

And you should just pretend that you're okay with committing, but don't say a word on it. Use actions, show it (fuck her, and just have sex) so she thinks whatever she wants to think and you get whatever you want to get.

And three weeks - for a girl you met in a club - is too long. She probably won't be interested in seeing you after three weeks. Anyway, make sure you text her something interesting every now and then so she feels closer to you in certain ways when you guys meet after a long while of not seeing e/o.

I had someone ask me about a situation similar to this the other day.

You can just tell the girl you're her boyfriend. Some girls want to hear that they are special before they fuck a guy. She's most likely one of those girls who "always has a boyfriend" but the boyfriend doesn't really mean shit.

You can tell her she's your girlfriend and fuck other girls.

She seems like the type of girl who actually enjoys when guys emotionally abuse her. Give her what she wants.