Hello fellow PUAs!

I will try to keep this short and to the point. I am in need of an out of the box perspective.

So I went to a party at my buddies house where I normally get laid. I was running my one night stand game on this girl to which it didn't work. She turned it down and said she wasn't that kind of girl. Although she was letting me touch her ass and hold her while she would even back up her ass into me.

I end up with her number and we set up a date for a couple days later. This is where it gets confusing for me because now I don't really know what to do with her. I was bein real sexual with her on the first night we met but I toned it down a little bit being out with her the 2nd time. My mindset changed from shes a hoe to she might be a nice girl and I may want to pursue this.

I took her to an Italian festival and we were flirting and light bumping each other. Mid way through I went in for the kiss which she was for it. Then she reached for my hand and we were holding hands. We seemed to click very well and she was laughing at my dumb comments that weren't even funny. I was getting a lot of IOIs throughout the night. She even said she had a good time without me even asking. She told me to text her when I got home after I dropped her off.

So I did. Well she started texting me the next day which was cool I didn't text a whole lot back but I did ask to set up another date. To which she agreed. I asked so soon because I had to work the rest of the week and I didn't want to risk her becoming a flake since I wouldn't be able to see her for the next 7 days. Well anyways the next day comes and it's like night and day...she tells me she is sorry she couldn't go out because she got called into work to train. Which that went along with her facebook status even though we weren't friends at the time. So I figured eh what the hell no big deal.

Anyways I try to text her the next day and she doesn't reply to me. However, she adds me on facebook and I accept. I messaged her when she was on facebook and she didn't answer me. Then I text her and she doesn't message me back. However, she is posting stuff on facebook and commenting on people's things.

Ok, I get it she's not interested and has blown me off. I am just wondering what I did wrong. I did tell her I was interested, I never told her I liked her though. Should I not have held her hand? I was also coming up with date ideas on the drive home in just general conversation. I wasn't asking her on a date I was just suggesting things to which she was agreeing and even said I better take her to some of these places or she would kick my butt.

I am completely confused..I have never had a date go so well and then get blown off. She even was texting me the next day but then out of no where just stopped. Did I come on too strong?

too much comfort and rapport before pumping attraction further. Next time dont give away so much of your status before you fuck her, you came off as too try hard.

Thanks for the input.

I found out what happened. Someone told her a lie about me so they could hook up with her. I found out because she actually told me what happened. I just stopped talking to her.