| I'm very new to this, broke up with 2 year + relationship about 1.5 months ago. Finally getting my house back in a day and stumbled into a fun situation.
New years eve party. I rocked it, tried some basic techniques, but I knew most people there. I think a lot of my success came from just bringing a lot of fun to the party(I brought a bad ass air hockey/ beer pong thing that people were going nuts over) and lots of folks knew I was freshly single. anyways, pretty much had 2 girls fighting over me, which I will admit got quite awkward at times, I did my best to own it, but by the time shit was really interesting I was quite drunk. Made out with one, got taken to her parents house by the other. got her phone number the next morning
The one I slept with is in town for a couple more weeks on college break, so I'm thinking once I get my house back, I invite her over to celebrate and use her as target practice for some kino/chick crack games(I particularly like the one from "The Game" where he has the girl visualize the last time she was happy). The plan was to invite her over for a smoke. lets say cigars. She said she loves smoking ... cigars... and we couldn't last time, so seems like an excellent premise.
so first question - anyone recommend good chick crack games like that, I'm really bad at cold reading and want to try to toss that in a little bit, I did good with the roman gods ring routine. This is a great opportunity to try something new.
Second is a fun challenge. after I got her number, naturally my phone shit the bed before it could sync. so I no longer have her number. I did however friend her on FB, so that's going to be the contact route. Do I mention the reason I'm messaging her through the facebooks, and joke about it, or just let it go and not mention it. I feel like I will have to eventually get her number again anyways.
How would a true PUA handle this situation? The fact is also, she did a lot of the picking up last time(even while sober). I gave her a lot of trouble, playfull teasing, and hot cold catstring, and bounced the chicks off each other. But I still got the feeling I wasn't always in control. Anything I can focus on to improve that?
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