Back when I was in college (before I learn about game, so no point in crying over spilled beer) I was hung up on a chick who was a teacher's assistent and had a crush on the teacher she assisted.

Classic friendzone situation, she would come to me bitching about wathever and I never got anything out of it. Now I know I should have escalated, froze if that did not work and next her if the freeze-out did not work either. But that is beside the point.

The thing is, the teacher was a good looking guy in his mid 30's, married, a kid, and an arrogant bastard with a very well known string of affairs. The girl I was interested in (again, now I realize it was pretty much due to lack of options and I think I dodged a bullet...) was alternating between "oh, he is so handsome, I'm gonna marry him some day" and "he's such a jerk!", she even complained to me he told her to book an hotel room for one of his mistresses, so this was a pretty messed up girl. Back then I just used to nod allong hoping the situation would eventually crash and burn and I would be there for the rebound. But now I was thinking, what if I had given her a reality check, something in the lines of "You're just going to be the next in line and when he is done with you he will dump you like he dumped all the ones before you. Or are you expecting him to leave his wife for you and that you will live happily ever after? Grow up!" And then freeze. I mean, I had nothing to lose, but could that turn it in my favour?

You'll never know unless you try.

There are some actions though that done x number of times will almost lead to the same result y number of times. Say, when girls start crying on your chest or shoulder then you covertly rub their nipple or crotch, some 7 out of 10 girls will positively react to the covert erotic parts rubbing.

That's the time that you rub girls' abdomen, just above the pussy area. This action usually leads to hand in pussy after some token resistance until eventually, you get your penis in vaginas.

There are sexual escalation patterns that work most of the time. Girlie drama like crying, bitching about and so on will usually work in your favor if you just let girls cry and bitch about while you focus on their nipples and pussies.

That simple.

Do not treat girls like they're objects or be like a girl and intensify her drama some more. Girls have pussies and nipples. They're human. Work those in your favor so you can ease up their pains and stresses with some skillful banging.

Eventually, girls will learn that you're the go-to guy for great sex when they're stressed out and down from their crushes, boyfriends or husbands.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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Your logic is undeniable...

Watch this video.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nKNyFSLJy6o

I think that will help you out in your situation. There are actually 3 parts to the video. Watch them all.

Pretty interesting stuff. Thanks.