What's up PUA's? Ive been browsing the forums for past few days and i got to say, I love what you all have going here!

So I've been picking up on girls for the past couple years, pretty easily. I'm good looking and pretty charming and usually wait for women to approach me. I work in hospitality so theres a constant flow of good looking women. I dont score every week but often enough to keep me satisfied. Because of this, I dont have to ever "spit game" at bars and clubs. So my skills are pretty below average. Thats just a bit about me, now to the problem I have.

Ive been really good friends with this house of girls for over a year. I see them every weekend. They got a new roommate about 8 months ago whos a solid 9/10. We immediately hit it off and kind of lightly flirted over the course of a few months. During this time, we were also seeing other people and she was dating one guy for about a month or so. We started dancing with each other a few months ago and we finally made out about 2.5 months ago. We started going out for one on one things like dinner and concerts, etc. Everything was going good till I called it a "date" once. Next day, she wanted to talk about what we had going and what we wanted. She said she didnt want a relationship and we couldnt keep going out on "dates". She said something about it would be weird if we broke up because we have the same friends. She said we were definitely more than friends and I told her what i wanted was more than friends but less than a relationship but was more just going with the flow. we kind of left it at that. Since then, weve still been going out on "not dates" and cuddling, but havent hooked up again.

How should I proceed from here? Ive already lowered the amount of contact by phone, FB, etc. but I still see her every weekend because we have the same friends. I was honestly not against a relationship at first because ive been 1 night standing girls for a while but now so, im just trying to get back to the hooking up phase with her.

Like I said previously, my picking up skills and dating skills are a bit rusted because I just have flings who do all the work. So any advice would be highly appreciated. I plan on sticking around these forums for a while and learning some more. This whole situation made me realize how much my game sucks and how much more I could be doing out in the field. Keep on doing your thing fella's!!!

Cheers!