every one has their own understanding of anything. and i learned not to assume anything. people use the same words and mean different things. so i learned not to assume, everything needs to be throughly asked to understand what actually people mean under the words they use. but ye, i do not understand what is so difficult about that. you are probably a complete beginner. then probably the best way is to get some experience.

The power to walk away and firmly say NO.

I think that's what makes a "bad guy" from women's perspectives.

Girls I've sarged most often tell me that I'm sweet and kind. But when the time comes to next, withhold the attention and firmly say "NO" I've always been called (by the same girls): the 'devil,' 'a bad person,' 'an asshole,' 'a jerk,' 'a ruthless chauvinist pig' and too many other negative labels I can no longer remember.

The irony is that when several girls start calling you negative things, that's the time when the pussies start raining on your cock.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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its not really the difference between a good and bad guy, its more a strong vs weak guy.. the thing is this are you strong in that you have your own mind own opinion and dont care, or do you agree with everything she says are you needy and more importantly you care too much...

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life sucks and then you die! deal with it

I just looked into this thread again, and when I looked back at my previous post here I realized that my tone may have been a little bit aggressive. Sorry for that. But aggression is actually something I would like to talk about here. That is one thing that could bring you in the right direction, believe it or not.

Many PUA:s go through a period when they after repeated failures (or lack of success) start feeling aggressive - they hate the game, girls, people, everything. Though they probably hate themselves for being such loosers, projecting their feelings to the outside world. I've been there, done that, and it actually turned me in the right direction!

My recommendation to you is to keep on going out, and fail fail fail until you can't take it no more. When you feel the aggression I'm talking about, go home, count to ten, take some deep breaths and calm down. The next time you go out you will probably be more prejudice than before, more cynical and more sarcastic. You will go into a conversation with a different attitude. You will be a slightly different person than before. In the beginning you may be a little bit too aggressive and frightening (overcompensating), but with time you will learn to find the right balance.

I don't know if this was a bad tip, but that was the process I went through, and it worked for me.

You don't need to be a "bad guy" to get laid. What you need is confidence. Start with your body language- become edgier. Also, maybe grow some facial hair- facial hair radically changed my looks and game.