So there's a girl I started talking to from an online dating site who is clearly at the top of the looks class for that site. We've both been on and off the site for a year now and had been talking but never met up.. Finally today we had plans to go to a bar and meet for the first time. I knew I had to be nearly flawless in order to have a shot and I think I did a great job.
I met her, and she was every bit as hot as I expected. Within like thirty seconds she took off her coat and called me out on staring at her tits, which I subconsciously was doing... That could have been a disaster but I played it off by saying "what tits?"
I maintained this level of cockiness throughout the night pretty much. I did some kino and kept teasing her. She would push me playfully when I made a joke. Most of our conversation was light hearted and sarcastic and we meshed really well. I could tell she was surprised at how spunky and outgoing I was being because she's probably used to guys drooling over her and saying lame generic things.
I made a joke that we could be great friends and wingmen for each other and I know this got under her skin a bit. "Is this guy even interested in me," had to be going through her head. Maybe this was a mistake on my part but I really wanted to seem aloof to the whole thing to keep her guessing.
Her next shit test came when the subject of kissing came up. She mentioned one terrible date where a guy tried to kiss her and she literally ran away to avoid him. I laughed and said I wouldn't know what that feels like as I've never been denied for a kiss. She responded by saying "Well if you try to kiss me tonight, you will be denied." I just smiled and said, "No I won't" and then transitioned to a different subject. The old "me" probably would have went into a shell after she said that and I'm glad I overcame it.
Finally we were ready to go and headed for the exit. I stopped her and started kissing her as we got outside. Thankfully, she was into it and kissed me back and initiated a few more kisses on her own. From there we went our seperate ways.
She texted me within an hour after the date which in my experience is always a good sign. Not only that, but she gave me the old "so what did you think?" line. I must have really confused her with my push-pull game and she needed clarification. However I didn't want to give her the satisfaction of giving in so I said, "I think the bar was great I'm definitely going to check it out again." This provoked her to say, "I mean what did you think of me, jerk!" And I said, "it was a fun time we should do it again." Obviously this isn't what she was getting at. She wanted me to tell her she was hot.
So she asked me again and I said, "OMG UR SO PRITTY LET ME CUM OVER 2NITE. Is that better?
" and she said "ugh I give up!" I then asked her what she thought of me and she said "you're handsome and intelligent and we share a similar sense of humor." I thanked her and she then said, "but you just want to use me for a wingman..." and I said "play your cards right and you might get upgraded to full time girlfriend... who knows!" and after a little more teasing I decided to freeze her out for the night.
So what do you guys think? I hope I didn't overdo the negging and I don't want to get too worked up over this. There's swirling doubt in my mind because this girl was just so damn hot and she flaked on me so many times before finally securing this meet up. But I have to say I'm proud I was able to kiss her. Should I lay low for a few days and try to set something up for next weekend? Any and all insight is welcome thanks!
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