I'll try to keep it short.
I'm a 26 yo dude with a small business and in senior year in college. Since my last relationship i was sarging as much as i can (for 3 years). I won't lie to you, i was not a rockstar with my penis blooding because sex every hour but i was doing good, getting stable sexual partners enough to satisfy me. Then one day i knew this nice chatolic girl, 19 yo...not previous boyfriend and virgin. We started dating and we started fast a relationship. She studied in the same college and major as me. Around a couple of weeks later she moved to my place.
Problem is i got a fame of player in my college. I think it's a unfair fame but well, what can i do? She started to get all insecure about it (remember, she is a high moral HB) and me drunk telling her it was true when we fought wasn't helping me. She broke up with me.
3 weeks of sweat and a lot of work and we got back together. 4 months passed, she even started to talk about marriage (understand, i was her first illusion). We started to become very jeaolus, controlling and codependant the one with the another but then semester finished and she came back to hometown for holydays. Then i knew her BF and problems started...
I really liked her friend. We saw us everyday because a winter course we took together, she got the same personality of my ex but muuuuch hotter so i started arguing, fighting, insulting and misrespecting my former girlfriend for 2 weeks, so i pushed her away. I even restringed her in facebook (she took it as i was cheating and hidding something) but i ididnt care, i lost all communication with her (she tried several times to send signals it was bad but again i didnt care). I failed to visit her family on christmas as i promised. In new year eve i decided her friend was not for me, came back...we fought and she said she knew i was about to break up and then...bump...SHE BROKE UP WITH ME.
Dude that got me crazy. At start we keep talking about our lives as we were partners untill she told me about this other guy hitting on her and i became all jealous. She stopped communicating with me, she even blocked me on facebook. Then i got pretty drunk and called. I really don't remember what i said but it was a mix of crying-begging-fighting. She stopped answering the phone and i started to stalk her (calling several times a day from different numbers. If she pick up the phone when she heard my voice she just put it back on its place). Then i started to send emotional and nice sms full of nice words and love. She replied very mean and cold. In one occation her mother answered the phone, we got a great talk but i could see she thinks i have problems and asked me to keep contact with her, but leave her girl alone.
One day i was in a party (a week later) and i texted her, she answered mean and i said that she was hurting me. She changed her manners with me and asked me to see each other.
When a i saw her, 4 days ago, i brought expensive flowers and chocolates and she was somehow mean with me, body language suggested she wanted me (we even touched our hands for several seconds) but keep telling me to get lost, that she was never in love, she doesnt feel anything for me, she doesnt care, etc. She keep being somewhat mean and angry, eventough she said she is not angry and couldn't care lees about what i did. I tried to keep my cool, asking for another chance, promised to change myself. I got a cold head and i'm pretty sure i managed it pretty well. At final i said i respected her decission and she left.
Day one i told her i was going to send her stuff back and she just didn't care. Day two no cantact. Day 3 i found she unblocked me on facebook, i sent a friend request and i asked for a lil' casual contact and we texted a bit but she was emotionally distant, she asked me questions but refused to answer questions about her (she doesn't want to talk to me about her life anymore). I think she tried to be nice, not hurt me but not give me hopes. She stopped answering me after i sent a text telling her i liked she was in my life and in my bed. Day four (today) no contact.
Question is: How to game her back? Is she really not interested? Is she angry? WTF is going on? Any advice would be appreciated. I will be keeping no contact untill i got a good strategy to game her back. I'll give it 2 months top and if things doesn't work i'll move on.
Thanks in advance
CHAT
I have another date with a nice HB8 that liked me (my gay frined told me). I'm in facebook chat with a couple of other girls and i plan to approach others on week.