Yes, the creep factor.

I'm +40 and I sarge the 18 to 21 year old demographic. One way to handle the creep factor is to never touch girls first (for the new ones that you're sarging, regulars are okay). Let them touch you first (and get so used to it.)

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I was at my local and I was talking to one of the regular HB7's (her status has fallen in the past year) about the creep factor. She is 31. My latest entanglement is 25. I showed her a picture of me and the latest. So I was saying the way I look at it. If someone is old enough to go out and hang out with adults. They should be approachable to talk to and see what they are into. If the conversation ever gets to the point that I want to game the chick. All she has to do is say no. HB7 acted like this was perfectly normal. She got up wisperred in my ear that I could fuck her if I wanted to tonight and went to the bathroom. After a few more rounds I told her I was going home. Like I said her status has fallen. Besides she has shot me down many times. It was cool freezing her out.

Between this and the approach that chicks can't keep up are the best approach. Thanks guys.

46 - give the people what they want. Also there is a reason for 007 and "stay thirsty my friends"

OK. Been listening and trying different things. Came to the conclusion my shyness is all but gone. I have no problem walking up to women, groups, guys and initiate some form of convo. Haven't had much luck with the game though. A lot has to do with finances. A lot of it has to do with going to the usual where everybody knows me. Trying to venture out so I can work the game. I guess I need a wing man. Anybody in Worcester Ma hit me up.

I do have one idea about a age deflection. What if when the topic comes up why don't I just spell it out. Or would it sound creepy. In the conversation my age comes up. I say 51 right off without batting an eye. I own it. I through out the line that at my age most girls can't keep up. Hahahaha. We go back and forth talking about age and me. (ya see this might be a good lead in after all) Now she's talking about me and we're getting close to romance and dating. How about if I were to lean in and whisper, "ya see I have this affliction. Its an attraction to young attractive woman". And then back away and see where she goes. I'm thinking that by using the word "affliction" I'm implying a neg.

Yes? No? Ideas. Is a neg at this point when I'm just about to close, a good idea?

Ridiculous. All men know that women still like older men. It's really up to the woman, right? If the 65 year old dude is kind, warm, funny, witty, and can be a dirty devil, then it's really up to the woman whether she's going to give it up. It has nothing to do with you. Take a rest. If she's really your girl you have nothing to fear from these older men. Truth is, most of the women that I have known in my life have been with a much older man at some point in their lives.

It's ALL in YOUR head. The reason they are reacting oddly to your age statement is because YOU FEEL WEIRD ABOUT IT because of social conditioning or whatever other irrelevant reasons. You could be a 105 year old fossil but if you truly felt you were the man, most women would not question you. Women are guided by emotion/feeling, men are guided by logic/rigid facts. Women are attracted to a man who feels attractive, men are attracted to a woman who he feels is attractive.

WOMEN ARE MIRRORS, WOMEN ARE MIRRORS, WOMEN ARE MIRRORS.

Two options for you going forward:

1) Don't disclose your age.
2) If you disclose your age, don't carry with you your preconceived notions that are NOT HELPING YOU IN THE LEAST. You are mentally cringing if not physically cringing when you tell them how old you are, and this needs to stop asap.

I would check your fashion because a hipster
at 51yrs old doesn't scream "power" at me

Which is why a young woman would want an older man in the first place

I bet a 51 year old in a "power suit" and a cigar or something similiar wouldn't
have a hard time attracting a beautiful young woman.

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Last time I was in best buy I was looking for girls to approach;

I saw this super hot foreign looking girl, tanned, short blonde dyed hair with black color underneath, 30ish, with those hip hugger skin tight jeans, heels, super tight top showing off her flat stomach and tits. As I got closer...

She was with this dude ... balding, white hair, with a light colored floral button up, those classic breezy linen white pleated pants, gold necklaces, watch and rings. He looked like he was on permanent vacation and didn't have a care in the damn world.

That 50 cent song came into my head; 'I don't know what you heard about me, I'm a motha fuckin P - I - M - P'

That's gonna be me someday