So Ive been talking to this girl since the middle of summer and she is.. unique. She has described herself as a hermit and doesnt hang out with friends very often, yet is beautiful and incredibly intelligent.

Everytime we talk, whether it be text, call, facebook, whatever she is very receptive and we have great conversations, with sex often coming up - its all good. We have an intellectual conversation everytime.

We have hung out maybe 7 or 8 times, and its always been fun. Lately though the problem is that despite her positive reactions to me, every time I ask her to go somewhere with me or do whatever she has an excuse or doesnt follow up with me. Her excuses are all legit, I believe, but its annoying. I am not trying to lay this girl anymore, simply want her as a friend (but Im thinking it may turn into something more).

Ive been talking to her alot less, maybe text or call her twice a week (to make plans), but I am curious as to if I should keep trying to hang with her. Call me AFC.. but Im curious what you guys think.

Don't ask. Tell her.

Leaders don't ask. Leaders lead.

I was gonna say the exact same thing as Majikal. I had a similar situation I would ask the girl hey you wanna hang out/hey you wanna do this what not. Never got the answer I wanted. So I read up on text game my mistake was I wasn't leading and my texts were boring there was nothing exciting. What I did with this particular girl was gave it a couple days then re opened her with a creative funny opener. Had a convo then a couple days later I was like yo yo yo ______ city is calling our names let's go out tonight and see what kind of excitment we can find and maybe rob a bank while we're at it!! She replied less then 5sec later we went out that weekend.

yes, I already learned those lessons. My text game is pretty good, and I have loads of creative openers that I like to use. If I am asking a girl to hang over text, I always elude to "I am doing _____, you should tag along". I make plans for myself and try to include my friends in them. I smoke 420 and this girl and I share bud everytime we chill, but I am wanting to change that up. I am not as confident when Im initially high, but when buzzed the world is mine