Watusp PUA's!
First off, I would like to say that I go to college and work at the college as well.
I work in the welcome center so I see ALLLLLL kinds of hot chicks.
I'm always around people and the people that know me are always like "I can't believe your single
your so cool,funny, blah blah to be around with!"
So I'm basically shy at first if I don't know you but once I do know you I think I'm a pretty cool person.
Either way I'm not a virign and have had plenty of girlfreinds during high school.
I broke up with my ex about a year and a half ago, which was when I started college and actually got the job there... I've been stuck ever since my break up!
I see girls all the time and I can tell they flirt with me and I flirt back and bust their balls
but for some reason I never get to the number close!
THis is pissing me off because I see so many hot chicks pass by and my coworkers are like " dude she was totally flirting with you" and I know they are but I just can never number close! Fu*$!
Can anyone try to advise me on what I need to do are what would help...
I know I should have the "Fuck it" mentality and "What's the worst that can happen if she rejects me"
I have noticed that all my coworkers (which are females) all like me and try to invite me to dates and all that stuff but I honestly don't like them but yet I still flirt with them and have no problem asking them for their number. So wth! I know that my problem is that I'm putting the pussy on a pedestal for good looking women. So I desperately need your help on how I can solve this please!
Any insight is greatly appreciated!!
It 's like, I've been workng at this job for a year already and have not gotten laid once!
I should have landed a few lays by now!
BTW I diont think I'm bad looking and everyone at my work says Im a fashion cop and they think I'm on steroids, so appearance is not what is hindering me.
I did ask a coworker for insight and she said that at first when she met me I looked way too mean, serious, and stuck up... but when she got to know me she said I was one of the coolest and funniest dudes she met.
So I guess I should smile more. Lol Anyway I'm waiting for your replies thanks!!!

Why do you even need numbers? You are in college, just ask them to come to parties. You don't even need to frame it as an invitation, just drop casually "Hey, there's this awesome party at ........ tonight. You should come, it will be fun". If she says no, it's not a rejection because you didn't invite her, you just suggested a cool party she could come to. If she says yes, work it from there. Either go together, have some drinks before or have her come straight to the party. This setup would give you the best odds for a ONS, especially in a college environment.

Well yeah, but they usually flake. And sometimes theres not always parties.
It's a community college and yes theres some every now and then but now every weekend.
So either way, it would just be great to get their number you know to take it from there.

Sounds like you need to develop your social circle some more so you can get invited to parties...

You don't need numbers dude. All you've gotta do is be a cool guy with cool shit going on. You'll see all of these girls at the parties and shit for sure. If you work at a welcome center like that.. just be the cool guy from the welcome center. Ja feel?

If you're not going to parties... START! Quit sitting inside doing nothing.

Also... don't get fired because you're being a creep asking for girls numbers. Not a good idea to shit where you eat.

Lmao I feel you man.. Im starting my last 3 years this monday at a pretty big university for the spring semester and joined 2 fraternities and put my info on a lot of social and academic organizations to become more involved since its a fresh start. Any way... Amy books or videos that helped you in any way shape or form?

Input from anybody else is greatly appreciated!!

A wasted opportunity is a 100% lost opportunity.

It's either you try, or don't do it at all.
Stop nagging because it's not going to flip things around.
You either grab your balls and go for the number, or just be that welcome guy who does his job well.

If you never try, you'll never know, and that's guaranteed. I know your type of guys because I used to be like that. When anyone suggested a solution to my problem, I'd just make more excuses to keep my problem in discussion. It was about time that I realized that my only problem was to drop the bullshit and go for it. I did it, and it worked wonders for me.

Nothing comes the easy way and you have to acknowledge that. Sitting at home and posting about a never-ending problem will never get you laid.

True that.. Thanks bro!