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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

It is NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.

A Sticking Point is:
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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
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If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.



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PostPosted: Fri Jan 03, 2014 1:40 am 
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So this became a recurring problem to me, all women i meet seem to have that passive bitch shield around them, they simply refuse to participate in any meaningful way, even when i try to gouge a reaction by light negs they pay just passing attention to it and wonder of, maybe it is just girls i meet lately but i rely get minimal feedback, how do i deal with that?


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 08, 2014 7:03 am 
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You are doing something wrong when you approach. Personally I think approaching per se is a bad thing to do (approach as in walk up to someone just to initiate a conversation), since it gives people the signal "I want something from you". If you know RSD you know that you have to contribute to a social interaction, you need to give.

A good rule of thumb is to make your opener slightly accusing, as in "you just took my spot in the bar". Another "rule" is to always approach indirectly - talk to people close to your target, her friends and such. Befriend them and make them enjoy your company (that will attract your target). Always talk male friends first. A third "rule" is to always meet people at their level, whatever interpretation you can give the word. Meet them with the same energy level, the same mood and the same attitude. Then add just a tad more energy and positive attitude to be on top and the one who contributes the most.

If you are alone at the moment, the target has no male friends and she has her bitch shield up on full power... Then you can start asking yourself "is this person even worth my attention?". If you find the answer to be "yes" despite her negative aura, you need to go in with the same attitude. Avoid eye contact in the beginning (you should normally make eye contact, but this is a special case), throw out your accusing opener, and head for whatever is straight ahead - hopefully a friend or the bar, where you can order a beer. Ignore the girl if she doesn't answer. If she does, you can continue the conversation by being critical to her attitude, and then slowly slowly lighten up the mood (called pace and lead).

Good luck!


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 08, 2014 8:15 am 
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What makes you an interesting man?

Why should women pay attention to you?


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 09, 2014 10:43 pm 
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A good opinion opener in the bar is always helpful, unless they are a major cunt this type of opener will open up almost any set successfully and get your foot in the door. Guys over use negs too much, those are more harmful than helpful atleast for my game. Im strictly a qualifier disqualifier type of guy. Make sure you have some routines ready if you see shes getting bored and be prepared to stack them. Off your opener try to connect her opinion to something, anything so you can keep the convo going strong and build rapport. Im not the lying type but fabrication is fine if you need to. From there once you guys seem to connect off something try to start qualifying yourself through the subtle implementation of DHVs whether this be via storytelling based off that connection or your wing talking you up, whatever. This will not only peak her interest but keep her attention as well. She will want to know more, esp. if one of your DHV's hits a sticking point.

Those two questions chief asked are exactly what women are thinking in their head. What makes you salient from all the other bozos that hit on her? Show her through DHV's


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PostPosted: Fri Feb 14, 2014 12:08 pm 
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I would say try to be an interesting man, dress well, have good hobbies, read stuff you are interested in, travel, take part in activities, have ambitions, aspirations in life.

Try to get something to use as a DHV too.


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