| So I've just started three weeks' full-time training to work in a call centre. Joining at the same time - and in the same class as me - are two friends from university: a boy, (for ease, Jack) and a girl (Sarah). Now I've known Jack for about 8 or 9 months, and known Sarah for about 2 months. Sarah is, IMO a HB8-8.5, and she's got a fantastic personality as well. When I met her, in a club, I managed to impress her by dressing slightly differently, and not being absolutely smashed, and got her number almost immediately.
Ultimately, however, she said she wasn't long out of a relationship, and wanted time being single; that was at the start of November. We kept in touch and I expressed interest once more, and was told that I'm a "breath of fresh air", but that she wasn't looking for anything then.
So, fast forward to now. At this point I should state I'm a very amateur PUA, who knows a lot of the theory, but is still working on applying it. The first two days of training this week, she was friendly, and smiley, but I realised on the morning of third day (today) that I'd used next to no kino on her. I started using a bit of kino, and, by God, I think after all these years, I've finally found what I was doing wrong with women. Within a few hours of starting it, she was playfully pretending to tickle me, running her hands through my hair. Whilst she's not the type to back away from kino, and accepted it from another lad in the group who's trying to get in there, she never once initiated it with him, whereas as soon as I'd cemented the kino, she was either touching me or giving me obvious opportunities to touch her. We were generally very flirty all day, and the highlight was me quietly asking her, "Are you alright?"
To which she replied, "Just dreamy...dreaming of you."
I went C/F here, and came back with "Funny that...I was dreaming of me as well."
To which she rolled her eyes, but in a cute way.
I'd say I'm 99% certain I've managed to create attraction there, but it's the extent to which I have that matters, and I really have very little idea what to do next. I'm generally not shy when it comes to expressing my feelings to girls, but because I've been knocked back before by her, I'm a little unsure as to how to approach it. I do have a touch of oneitis over her, because she does seem so much better than any girl I know. I give her and Jack a lift to work each day, and though she doesn't live there, she usually ends up staying at Jack's because they're long-time friends.
In theory, I guess I have to isolate her, and take her away from the work setting, but there's not much chance of that until the weekend, and I'm worried she'll get bored of mid-level kino (holding her by the waist, playfully wrestling a pen off her, coming up behind her while she's seated and gently massaging her shoulders) by then, and will write me off as a pussy. I'm encouraged because she accepts kino from another guy in the group who is the definition of C/F, but she never reciprocates with him, where as she does with me.
So, two questions:
1) Does it sound like attraction is present?
2) How can I move on from here?
Thanks,
Nairobi
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