I have this thing where if a girl has a lot of friends, like 1000 to 4000, takes a bunch of photos and always gets a ton of likes on them and has hundreds of guys chasing after her, that will make me feel like I have no chance.

How do you guys cope with that? Any tricks or things you tell yourself to not be fazed by numbers or status?

I know you have to be different and original to set yourself apart from other guys, but how exactly do you win her with uniqueness?

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Hi dude,

I see your focus here is mainly online game? I have 10k followers on instagram and hopefully this will shine some light on your situation.

Just like many PUA's preach, girls with what seems like 'higher value' are still girls, just normal people that aren't superstars, the sooner you realise that the better your online game will be. The fact that they are aware of their hotness and popularity actually makes approaching and any attempt of game A LOT easier, because they are used to it! - Just like approaching a HB10 at a club rather than a 3, you're going to receive a better response.

If she's popular on social media this means that she pays A LOT of attention to it, no girl or guy I've ever known who has very busy social profiles have done it without caring and paying attention to who's responding and liking posts. I recently started speaking to a girl who had tons of friends and followers, I paid more or less no attention to this and just acted like she was any other person, and soon enough, after a couple of likes, comments and an online approach we were texting the same night and have arranged to meet up.

If you want her attention, do your own thing, post interesting stuff, showcase you best self, give her something worth liking and commenting on, and then like and/or comment on something of hers (perhaps stay away from the most popular pictures/pages of hers, make your response unique!)

Let me know how it goes my man,

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if she constantly takes photos she's doing it for attention and to heighten up her ego...

what does this mean?

It might not mean she's totally unconfident.... but she may not be as 'high statused" as you think she is...

just stand out from the crowd and don't let it phase you.

99% of the dudes are hitting her with lame shit and have no clue about game. They're just empty likes she's getting to know she's hot shit...

bust her balls, neg her... not to put her down... but to show you stand out from the pack.

but make sure you read my post on negging so you know you're neggin her RIGHT. the-proper-way-to-neg-a-girl-most-peopl ... 73095.html

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My sister reminds me of that girl. She is addicted to validation (as most such girls are) due to lack of self esteem. That means that she will go out with people who can give her more validation, and the "boyfriends" have to be accepted by her friends first, as if they are trophies to put on display. Her criteria are that they have to be extremenly good looking and successful in life. But since most such guys are players (not boyfriend material, or already in a relationship), she has a really hard time finding anyone and is still single. IMO she is a lost case, and there is a chance your target is too.

Remember that people with many friends usually don't have any *good* friends. They only relate to these people at a very shallow level, since they don't have much time to spend with them. This in turn can make them feel lonely, even if they meet new people every day. You can use this to your advantage by becoming some kind of "anchor" in her life, a friend she can come back to, someone she can trust. But I wouldn't recommend online game, you need to meet her IRL.