So i went on this date with this girl to the movies, which was more of an adventure since i was winging it most of the time and it ended up being a all around fun experience. She kinda rejected me when i tried to hold her hand on the way to the bust stop which was pretty half assed holding hands anyway and she told me that she were just friends so friends don't do that and she let go. Though i didn't really get bothered by it and continued on the date which and ended up eating at chickfala or what ever it's called made her buy my meal so i would buy the tickets. anyway it was cool we chatted up and stuff and she was having a great time. I had a strong frame at the time being alpha commanding and not taking no as an answer. when we got to the theatre and to our seats she intiated the kino by holding hands with me first which only like an hour ago she was the one that had stoped it. After this we built major kino through out. I had 3 opportunites to kiss her. Didn't take one i kissed her on the cheek and she was kinda happy with it but i didn't do more than that. reason why i was a pussy about it. straight up nothing else to say about it. I may be new but this annoyed the hell out of me for the whole rest of the night till i figured out it was a good night. After wards we would talk and text basically every day for the sake of enjoying eachothers company. but at this point if feels like theres not alot to talk about since we talk everyday i feel like it's rather difficult to come up with stuff to say. another reason for that is it may be due that i havn't really been doing much as of late since the date which was a few days ago.

So i looking on insight on what to do. at the moment freezing out may seem like it will just dwindle the relationship in my opinion. which i don't to do that. this is very afc of me but i actually do want to date this chick and we both been kinda investing in this. we go to the same college and we don't go back until the 13th of Jan. insight on what to do to fix my current position would be great and good for future cases in case this doesn't work out

don't worry about this, we've all failed to do this. here are a few tips that might help you:
- Don't just go hand in hand with her. Have her grab your arm first, and then after a while, just smoothly let go and take her hand, and the whole time continue talking what you were already talking about.
- Don't wait for opportunities to kiss her. I can't remeber from whom I've taken this, but what works great for me now is this. In the middle of walking with her, I just take her in front of me, or I place myself in front of her, put my hands around her waist, get her really close to me, look her in the eyes, and just stand there and enjoy the tension. And then slowly slowly kiss her. But you have to be really present and enjoy the tension. And once you do that, this works amazingly.

As for waiting one week till you see her next, you can change the frequency of texting her. You have to study probably, so you can use that as an excuse. But do it in a flirtatios way. Say something like "Aggghh, stop haunting my thoughts, I really have to focus on styding. And I would so take you on an crazy adventure", or whatever is appropriate.

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man thanks alot that actually really helped me. so just make the tension and don't be nervous by it enjoy didn't think of that much apprcieted