Hi all,

A month ago I went for the first time in my life to a speeddating. I have studied PUA material well, and was very teaseful and funny (while other guys are too serious). In the end many of the girls of the speeddating had chosen for me.

I choosed two of the hottest girls of the speeddating (H8 and a H7, the rest was H6 or lower) and they haven chosen me too, since the results are known at the end of the day.

I send them an email, after two days. The emails were fun and teasing and we switched to SPAM. We SPAM a few times, and she always answered within 15min. I noticed that the attraction was becoming less and less, and suggested to meet with the H8.

Then this H8 said:'What if I had a bf, would you still want to meet me?'

I answered: 'yes of course, but then you have to pay for your own drinks'

Is she testing me? And what should be the next steps?

Sounds like a test to me and you answered it properly so just be cool let her respond. If she doesn't give it a couple days then try again.

You were too focused on building attraction and she got bored waiting for you to make a move or she never was interested in you in the first place and was just entertaining herself... either way, know when to move on. Now seems like the time...

This is an example of a girl who is concerned and your job is to comfort her. Majikal I don't think this is a clear sign that she never was interested. Maybe she got bored, but if her interest was still there and she sends this text, it just means that she wants a guy she can have sex with without any attachments (perfect really!). In which case a better response would have been something like "Yes, but only if you don't tell him about our meetup." Shows you are discreet, which she is looking for it seems.

Hi guys,

you are all totally right. There was attraction in the beginning, but it got less and less. She got bored and I got bored.

Saying: "what if i have a bf?" is definitely a test. To spice up things a bit. I think I managed this test ok.

The next step I will take is role-reversal: I will pretend that she is the one that wants more, and than I am more the chill one..

I will text her someting like:'I know what kind you are You want to get married and have kids right away. I am not that far yet. I just met you! You know, let's have a drink and we will see, ok? "

I like this and will definitely use this!!! Thanks mate