she meant that big dicks scared her and that mine was big too but still nice. on the other hand the other comment more recently about how I was the perfect size for her and big ones scare her implies that she has seen bigger or wouldn't want bigger near her

plus telling her big tits scare the shit out of me in sarcasm would imply that their big dicks were more appealing then mine is to her. which I would like to believe is not the truth and she does think they would hurt like a bastard and not be as pleasurable of an experience

From the convo posted, sounds like lionheart pushed this. His girl is childish, true, but he commented on how girls can't tell the difference. Doesn't sound like she was trying to mess with him. He shouldve just blown the comment off but telling her she can't tell the difference is going to make her defend that. Stupid move on her part to explain her credentials but it sounds like he is drawing an insecurity out here.

Childish girlfriend + insecure about his size boyfriend (yes, Lionheart you have some hangup about your size from what's written here and your analysis of her ex's dicks) = this shit.

Big dicks scare her. That's all. She didn't say the were better. Yours is not big. She prefers your size. If someone tells you the truth about something and it hurts you, that's more you than them. You have a hangup about your size.

I don't even think she is "shit testing" you - if so shouldn't she have lost some interest after you failed it? Just seems like she doesn't have a filter and says the dumb shit that a regular girl would think but be smart enough not to say. You are insecure in this rs and that combined with a chick who says dumb shit is always going to be a problem.

by explaining her credentials...you mean saying "oh I can tell, just take the compliment"....you really think she sincerely thought it was a compliment by saying that? sure she tells me her preference, but to then say i wouldn't want to have sex with her if she told me something....



also, I want to bring this up with her again. maybe fake like I am concerned she has an STD by being so vague in that statement, and make her further explain what would keep me away from her if I knew it. It might not be what I am thinking

My making her explain how she knows what a big dick is by telling her girls can't tell. From the way the convo started, she commented on a big dildo saying they scare her, and yours is nice. Sure, technically it's a neg, but it was most likely innocent and just dumb. I remember once I was watching some documentary with a chick (she had B boobs) and the doc was about insane breast implants. I commented (because I was really thinking it), "I hate tits that huge...your tits are perfect." Wasn't trying to be rude, it was just my thought. As she said, take the compliment.

Why the hell do you want more clarification from her? Do you want to know if she had huge dicks in her? Will that make you feel better if she says she didn't? Dude, you don't want to go down that road with a girl. Exploring what they like sexually is fine, but going through their history to see how you measure up is insecure and is just going to mess with your head. I never ask a chick who they fucked, where they fucked, what they did or how am I compared to them. If she's sucking your dick and swallowing your cum, she sucked other guys dicks and swallowed cum. If she says you're the best lover she had, she told the last guy that and she will tell the next guy the same. I wouldn't even ask a gf that because I know it's either going to be watered down so I don't get mad, or will put images in my head I don't want.

If she had told you from the beginning she had been with 5 dudes and always had great sex, would you have not made her your gf? If you wouldn't have, it means you're mostly with this girl because you're insecure that if you aren't her best or biggest she will stray.

it seems she just wants you to feel good about your penis, she probably doesn't care much one way or another, but makes those comments as an attempt to make you feel like your penis is preferred the most to all other penises, but a penis is a penis and she probably cares more about who's attached to the penis more then anything as long as it's not mangled or crazy small or massive

bro just stop it's not about the size of the sword but the skill of the swordsman.

and she was just telling u a story about when she saw a big dick. it scared her. she meant what she said. stop looking too far into it. if you were too small for her she would have left u already

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At the end of the day you need to ask yourself, am I a sheep or a wolf?

Guys I asked Dennis W. Neder about this issue.... his response was

The problem here is one that many men see: they don't understand how some women "speak their thoughts". By this I mean that women often say things not because they believe them or have any feelings whatsoever - yet - about them. Instead, they say them to "hear" what they sound like in real life.

I suspect this is what's going on here.

She's otherwise VERY satisfied with your sex life (from what you tell me) and thus, the size of your package means absolutely nothing - big OR small. (Oh, and yes - at 6" you're slightly above average in length. The issue however isn't length at all since the average vagina is only between 3.5-4.0 inches! The issue is girth.)

Ok, all that said, be careful not to let this get hold of you. It doesn't mean anything.

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I don't get why she is speaking those thoughts tho guys! This must be something she has thought about a few times then because she harped on it a few times saying the scary thing.

He also said that my assessment of the situation doesn't sound accurate. aka that she might have had pain with one guy, her ex was small, ect..................but if she didn't have pain/not enjoy it, why would she keep saying they scare her without me asking, and why would she think it would make me not want to have sex with her ever again


I also want to add that my girl also said "I think taller guys have bigger penises" (I know this isn't the case always) and I am taller than her ex boyfriend and he was a very small guy, so I can infer that it wasn't him that she had sex with that might have been bigger. What gives

Its a shit test so >> don't give a shit

I'm glad I didn't really react. Just said women are bad at judging, smiled, agreed that I have a grower, and didn't react to her saying other stuff either.

I take what she said with a grain of salt?

Exactly dude, be like the wind lol.