Hi guys

This kind of AFC story has probably been fired up on here many times. I recently gave natural gaming ago last year after a friend from uni introduced me to it. I watched him do brilliant at what he does, physically escalate on girls the lot. I witnessed him get with some hot girls whilst I tried being forward, cocky, funny the lot but just got more and more frustrated with the rejections etc and ending up hating the experience and losing respect for the female population in general because I literally could not see what the problem was.

The more I tried it, the more I got pushed to the side when approaching groups of women with the guys from uni I went out into town with. But maybe I stepped back a few times and thought it was going to fail before I even stepped into their space and gave it a shot because I had failed that many times and lost any hope?? but there were times when id been forward, relaxed and not tried hard and still, they walked on...

Those guys graduated last year and have left. This year at uni I have tried to adopt the mindset of not going after girls and not looking for it but that still doesn't seem to be yielding anything better.

I mean, everytime I talk to girls my mind still continues to go into autopilot and ask the same generic, shitty, friendly guy questions to try and maintain an interaction because every chance I get with them I think its my last

How do I get out of this mindset and be more forward towards them and just generally not give a fuck even though I have had little success over the last year and a half?

I can generally be a temperamental guy which is why I often act on emotion so this shit is difficult for me to learn.

You need to snap out of this negative mindset.

Firstly and most importantly remember that EVERYONE gets rejected, even the very best PUAs. NOBODY has a 0% rate of rejection.

Secondly, you know where you are going wrong with women; you said yourself you say the same generic shit. So think of some cool things to use before you start an interaction. Canned material can be great to get you started and feeling natural when holding a conversation with a woman.

Thirdly, focus on having FUN. Any interaction with a woman should be for YOUR enjoyment, not to get validation from her. If you go over with the mindset of being doomed to fail you WILL fail; however if you do it purely to entertain yourself it will relieve much of the pressure of the situation.

Good luck and keep going,
Dbo

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You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

You know your problem. You're playing fucking prevent defense with your conversations!!! Stop going the safe route.

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Cheers for the boost guys, yeah I guess im letting my mind slip into lazy mode, you can only defeat yourself at the end of the day.

Definitely going to get back into the fun of it as oppose to letting my mind think that its failure at every turn which is why everytime I speak to them now, its like my mind instantly goes "fuck off girl, youre not interested so just lets leave it at that" which is self defeatist attitude for sure.

Appreciate the heads up! this forum is great for abit of man to man talk.

Cheers