I'm new here and I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this. I'm currently learning about the art of pickup so I'm not such an AFC. It's not going badly and I've picked up a few nice dates!

My main problem is this one girl in my life. I've know her for almost 3 years when I plucked up the courage to talk to her as a shy AFC. I had no idea what I was doing back then and I quickly became her best friend... She was the first girl that I've ever really liked. Throughout the 3 years we've just been doing friendly things despite her knowing that I'd fallen for her (I told her). Looking back I know how wrong and stupid I was.. Eventually after going gym and talking to other girls I became more confidant and a lot better looking.

We met up in the holidays and we went on a lot of outings, she knew I still liked her but we seemed to ignore that and continue just having a good time with each other in a friendly way...

My problem is that I'm so far in the friendzone it's unreal. I've always wanted more from her. She's seeing some guy at the moment which annoyed me and again she knew I was annoyed...

It seems like only the master of all PUA could help me out on this one. But I've always liked a serious challenge. Especially now I know all the mistakes I've made with this girl I feel inclined to get out of the friend zone with her.

So far after I've learnt a few PUA techniques I've let her know that I'm not interested in her (she asked) in that way. I've tried to stop being such a bitch around her. I've played a few negs which seem to have made her react in a way I've wanted.

To her I'm a super nice guy... In the past she's even said she wants to get me with her best friend because I'm so nice...

This is bull. I want to be boyfriend close to her by the end of this year. (2014)

So I'm at uni now and will only probably end up seeing her maybe 3 times till April.
I come home in April for 2/3 weeks where I assume I'll see her a few more times.
Then In July I'll be home for a lot longer.

I'd MASSIVELY appreciate it someone could help me in this monstrous challenge? Even give me a few tips.

Thanks a lot

JayMan

Man, is it really worth it to ruin such a great friend relationship with her because you want her sexually? I would say you can continue to run routines on her so she can categorize you as a desirable man instead of just an afc, maybe try to get her to spend some time with you through watching a movie and then as you're teasing her, telling her dhvs, etc, friendly touches known as kino would help. Then create some pauses where you gaze at from her eyes to lips and ask "would you like to kiss me?" That could work and then you need to be smooth, laid back, relaxed if it does. If not, you may be someone she doesn't respect as a man and just uses you when she's bored so she's likely to run away. So it's your choice man.

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The secret to most things is to never hold yourself to other people's standards.

I'm not really wanting to ruin a friendship, I just want to see if it's possible to get out of the friend zone.
I'll try running routines and making myself look like more of a desirable man though. We've always been fairly touchy anyway but I'll try that too. Knowing her if I try the kissing question she'll reply with a yes and probably not actually expect me to kiss her but it's something new I can try that might work after I do more dhvs.

You sound really feminine, its time to stop that nonsense now. Girls are NOT sexually attractive to their male friends, its very rare. If you have seen stuff in movies showing the nice, shy guy winning a girl, that is fake and is just Hollywood programming shit. Ok then, best of luck to you.