hey so Ive been talking to this girl at the gym that my friend introduced to me

for weeks she harrassed me in person and through text about taking her out on a date, I asked her one night to go out with me and this is how the text convo went

me: hey lets hangout tonight me and you!
her:ok where??
her:meaning you tell me where and what time to meet you
her: Hey I'm sorry, but I made other plans and plus I have work later tonight you took too long to respond
Me:alright
Me:lets hangout a night preferably when you dont have work
Her: I dont know about all that now, you took 2 hours to respond and I'm not about that
Me: I was driving sheesh
Her: Listen I dont think you understand you do this all the time
Me: Yeah well I was getting things done so we could hangout tonight and I pushed all my other plans aside, but its ok forget it
Her: well if you wanna see me so bad come over
Me: nah thats alright its sort of a buzz kill now lol
Her: Ok well I guess I'll be seeing you in the gym then
I didnt respond

the next day she does this
Her: Hey I'm so sorry about last night would you please just accept my apology
Me: yea lets just forget about it and hangout monday
Her: Can't Wait!

we hangout monday everything goes great! I follow up 4 days later and I get this

Me: come do cardio Punk
Her:I'm going at 6
Me:oh I have work
Her:Have a nice night at work
Me: Rather be with you
Her:well arent you sweet
Her: you know when I workout so thats the only time you may see me really
Me: hey dont say that I had a good time with you monday night
Her:Same except for the end with the john thing pull something sweet out of your hat then Im old fashioned I like romantic sweet dates
Me: it was a joke sheesh, too thin skinned
Her: you need better jokes...
Me:lol oh please
Her:I'm going to take a nap see you around

I didnt text her back but on our date she asked me to come over and watch a movie after and i said nah i gotta get running and she kept saying oh come on please, then I made a joke saying nah john told me what kinda girl you are as a complete joke

the next day i get this
Her:hoping to hit the gym around 1230 to 1 if youd like to join
Her:hey so i do like you Im sorry if i sound like an ass when i talk to you, im just at the stage where im trying to protect myself i did have a nice time with you I mean you looked great I'm sorry again
Me: Im not gonna keep going back and forth with you every so often like youve been doing its annoying and I dont have time for it
Me: get ahold of me when you grow up, I'll be around
Her: alright

its been 2 days havent heard from her any advice?

BTW: my friend from the gym told me she was really into me and he thinks she starts this drama cuz i blow her off alot and shes trying to game me almost he said any advice?

You blew out the girl; if you lay low I'm sure she'll come back again.

blow her out? not to sound dumb what does that mean and what should i have done differently?

Lol you told her to grow up? That's a party killer don't ever tell a girl to grow up to be mature and etc...because simply females think they kno everything and they are grown up human beings at age of 12 maybe even earlier lol

And she invited u over 2 times and I mean 2 times!!!and u said no?what's the deal dog? I mean to come over and watch a movie??? That's like helloooooooooo

As of right now u gotta apoligize for telling her she needs some growin up to do and ask when guys can work out together or sone activity
OR OPTION 2 just to kill It
Be like so. *Umm did you grew up yet? If not that's not a problem u still can su*k me off time to time I mean hey maybe ull gain some maturity *

Lol. That was excellent.

She's going to try twist things on you so you come after her. If she waits it out past a week just drop her a line asking if she's "grown up yet" but don't come across as serious.

And you blew her out. As in you turned her down time and time again and basically told her she wasn't worth much of your time. Don't do that again.

ok so i was in the gym the other night and i saw my friend who hooked me up with her and i talked to him for a little then i went over to her and talked to her

everything went fine like nothing happened we did cardio together she asked me to hangout i said yea, we went to the bar her and i and our friend john we ate she drank a little then i went back to her place and we hooked up i found out a few sweet spots for her and were hanging out again soon

i was just afraid if i went in for the kill to early and showed her i was too available i might screw the whole thing up that has been my expierience