-Met hb8 through mutual friend, got her number
-Date with her today
-I am a online poker player with succes

She asked what we were gonna do today, i said "we're gonna go bowling, the loser has to buy the winner a drink".

Then today i saw her at a party and she said something that i didn't like. She said

"Well i am going to lose anyway.. And you're rich so you should pay the drinks afterwards"

i replied something like "Well i suck at bowling too so we'll see, you don't have any money yourself?"

And she said "Well you're the poker player here so"

Btw i was pretty drunk so i couldn't think of something better to say.

My idea was to just pay for the bowling and then let her treat me on a drink (I would probably win anyway)

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Is this a shit test? What should i do today when i see her ? Money wise. Its a real awkward thing for me tbh..

Thanks in advance

Shit test!

I would go with something like "Oh so you want to chicken out huh?"

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I don't usually bring money-related issues to the table with girls. I just offer to pay, if she declines then I'd just let her pay like it's no big deal.

You got yourself into such a situation. Don't make a big deal out of it, just take it in a humorous way.

She sounds fun to me. Atleast you are spending the money for spending time with her. Plus bowling and drinks, i know girls who would ask for way more.

Yeah that's an effective re-frame.

Honestly you should not of even made money a topic, especially if she already knows your status. As soon as she showed reluctant signs to wager for money/drink and brought up your status you should have changed the wager to something fun and flirty. A future favor, slave command, a silly act, etc etc.

Don't bring up money again and if she does, simply laughed it off and change the subject. There is a good chance she may be intimidated and not shit testing you at all. It's wise to stay off the topic completely.

And for the love of god, if you have the means pick up the tab....it's just a few drinks and bowling. DO IT!

As far as gold diggers go, I know a few and generally their game is not talking about the mans financial status at all and they are usually very eager to pay on a first date.

I suspect it's either a shit test or her own insecurity, either way play it smooth and change the subject.

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