First off I got a grower not a show-er. I'm like average sized aka 5-6 inches or whatever

My girl has said the following in the past about me, don't know what the heck she is trying to say though:

"Big penises scare me....this is still nice and everything don't get me wrong (points at my dick)" this was at a sex store near the dildos

"I don't like big penises they scare me...yours is perfect sized for me."
(I comment on how women are terrible at telling size anyway unless you are tiny or HUGE)
so she says: "oh no I can tell, just take the compliment"

"I would tell you something but then you'd never wanna have sex with me ever again"


So what she is getting at here is that she finds me large enough and well suited to her, but not big enough to scare her? Is she also implying that she has had small dicks/too big dicks before when she said take the compliment trust me?

I know she doesn't have an STD

I think she is saying exactly what she said. She doesn't like big dicks and is saying yours is just right sized for her. Oh her comment was probably she had a huge one or ones and it hurt or she didn't like it.

thing that confuses me is that she was 19 when I met her and had just gotten out of a 3.5 year relationship less than 2 months prior, so she would have been 16 at the time she met said guy. that guy took her virginity, and is quite a small fella. prior to that she had a boyfriend who she had implied was well endowed because he was a black guy (I know it is a myth but she implied it isnt, even tho he was a revolting fella) but she never had sex with him

not to mention, why did she say "don't get me wrong, this is still nice" when saying she is scared of big ones? Is she implying that mine is a good size and wasn't hating on it?

why the fuck do you care about this petty shit? Just fuck her good. period. Who gives a shit about what she means about your penis size. give her fucking orgasms

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Don't worry about it. It doesn't matter if you have good enough moves in bed to give her an orgasm. Giving her an orgasm isn't that complicated either.

She must feel that she has a good enough connection with you to be able to talk about an issue like that. Take it as a compliment and leave it at that. There is no point in worrying about shit you can't change anyway.

that is true...but I can change her perception of what big is. For example she might have no clue where I stand in the size department, but I can tell her in a subtle way (I measured my dick for shits and giggles and I am six inches! yahoo says 5.6 is national average, maybe I need a reward)

Huh? Why do you need to change her perception of big? Your dick is average, not big or small. So she is right.
It's no big deal. But the only way I can take the "you'd never have sex with me again"comment is that she has been hammered by a big dick/dicks. So she is lying somewhere in her sexual history.

I think she did have it with that first guy, when she was like 16 or 17. I just hope her long term boyfriend after that had a small pecker to match his small frame so I'm not her smallest and her biggest was in his freakin teens lol

and to get that hammered line out of my head I'll just keep reminding myself that she describes her previous sex life as unorgasmic and they used to beg for it lol

but why the hell would she think I wouldn't want to have sex with her again if she had it with a big dicked fella? I want to add that he was black, and while I am not racist there tends to be a taboo for a white girl and a black guy, and she might be implying that she is embarrassed to have made love to a black dude

Lol. Are you really estimating the dick size of your girl's exs?

Fuck her and make her cum.
Don't give a lot of thought to what she says. Because the messed up part is that if you 2 break up, she'll be telling the next guy shit about you too. "Oh...his dick was average and he never made me cum...your big dick is great."
If you believe a girl's story about her sexual history you're crazy. Hence I don't discuss it.

She's just being a cunt.

She's insecure and doesn't want you running off with other women. She needs to cut that shit out though.

Trust me. I've been with a few women from different countries. It definitely isn't the size that matters but more the shape... I don't consider myself big and have been very shy about my dick in the past but after the umpteenth woman from different countries orgasm and just tell me to stick my dick in them because I "have no idea what it does" to her you tend to believe them. And they come back for me all the fucking time -- shit is the reason why I tend to get into relationships almost all the fucking time after I fuck a chick!

As long as you don't have a micro dick you have nothing to worry about.

Yeah I really don't get why she would be mentioning this stuff out of the blue...telling me i have the perfect size for her and big ones scare her, and she could tell me something but be afraid it would make me not want to have sex with her again...

that pisses me the fuck off because it implies that she thinks having sex with that guy made her loose or something and I wouldn't want to bang her because she had banged that guy before?

that is like me saying "hey babe i better not tell you how big my ex girlfriend's tits were, yours are small and perfect to suck on but hers were too big and not as much fun to play with and uncomfortable, if i told you how tired my tongue got you might never want it in your mouth again"

that is assuming the big peen thing is what she is referring to, it could be just because she slept with a black guy and that would be gross to me or some stupid chick logic

Again, Lionheart, your gf sounds really immature. I don't know why stuff keeps coming up with this chick for you but its always weird and funny.

women seriously lie through their teeth about this stuff to manipulate, voice their own insecurities, bring out YOUR insecurities, ect.

sometimes they even believe their own BS because they are in love too, hence why the second you break up, you have the smallest weiner in the world but when good times are here you are amazing in bed lol

she is a WEIRD chick for sure man. very quirky. young, hot, insecure, attention seeking, high sex drive, jumps me all the time, has been loyal so far but drives me nuts.

shit tests a ton, and comes out with some weird ass stuff that is hard to decipher. She doesn't have a very storied sexual past in terms of numbers, so she is probably referring to a single instance. Her ex boyfriend and (prior to me) 90 percent of her sexual history is a crybaby AFC and she was not happy with the sex there, so I should be OK

Tell her "Big tits scare the shit out of me. You're okay though." Say it as a neg. See what she says. If she keeps the dick talk up just randomly bring up the big tits talk and see what she has to say about that.

Her only logic as an insecure woman -- which she probably is after an LTR -- is that you feel down and won't see yourself as being able to get someone better than her. It doesn't have to make sense, that's just the truth of things. Men and women are the same. Insecure men will put a woman down to make her feel like shit and not think others would find her attractive. If she doesn't feel attractive, she's not going to believe the dude calling her pretty is sincere but just being "nice". Same logic applied to women saying shit to men.

Ignore it or be snide about her tits every now and then. Honestly, i'd just tell her to "stfu" and if she thinks she can talk that way to me she can find some dude who has a big dick and tell him how "small dicks" or "average dicks" scare her because "I don't really give a fuck."