This forum has helped me land my first girlfriend in 3 years. For that I am truely grateful.

We have been hanging out consistently for three weeks. It took me about ten dates to actually kiss her. Since then it's been a steady increase in physical contact and chemistry. She is amazing and finds me amazing as well. Again thanks for your help with me accomplishing this.

Our physical contact is kissing of all types, hugging, holding hands, and when we get together on her couch we make out, cuddle, and I am starting to grab tits and ass in a pretty smooth and comfortable progression.

Here's where it's been stopping however.

When I we start making out and we get into it she pulls back right as we get really going and says, "let's slow down" or something similar. Sometimes she just easing back into cuddling and kissing as we get going as well.

Everything in me wants to say she just takes things slow or look how far you've come don't get pushy or some other justification for not fucking yet. Based on my willingness to use your advice I am rejecting that and coming for help to get to the fuck close.

Want to stress that this girl is more important to Me than just sex but I am horny and eager and willing to heed advice to take this to that next level.

Thanks for reading, I'm all ears. I will post questions and results check my last thread to see my input there. Thanks fellas.

Here's my strategy

I'm open to criticism and improvements so please share any concerns that come up.

We've been hanging out everyday for three weeks. She is getting the attention she wants while holding back on giving it up. She has everything she wants and this is what I plan to change.

I'm going to take three days off and not see her while keeping communication to a bear minimum. I've got some shit to catch up on anyways in other parts of my life.

When we do hangout again this weekend im going to go in for the fuck as our physical contact kicks off throughout the night. If she pulls back or turns me down again for any serious physical contact I'm going to pull out from physical contact completely and talk to her about what's going on.

My plan for communicating my intention is this.

I enjoy spending time with you and value this relationship and where it's going and where it's been. However, when we start kissing and touching my instincts as a guy is to take it to the next level. I don't want to put you in a situation your not ready for so we need to either make that next move or reevaluate what this is really all about.

This will be done right after she pulls back and I'm going to focus on feelings and emotions as that's what girls work off of rather than logic. I will sit her up from the couch and with my hand on her be serious and genuine and if she reopens physical contact right then or later I will take that as a sign she is ready for the next level. Of course I risk losing what I've built so hard to get but without risk there's no reward.

Thoughts on this? This same type of conversation got me into my ex's pants for the first time mid conversation so I'm hoping to be 2/2 on this game plan.

Please share your opinion. Thanks.

This problem could be caused by two things as I see it.

No 1
Your escalation is not matched to her feelings. ( Women don't care about you thinking it's logical that sex comes after cuddling ) If you don't get her in the mood you simply won't get laid.

No 2
Poor logistics
Make sure that she feels comfortable with the environment and surrounding events.

If these settings are done correctly very few women will put up last minute resistance.