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PostPosted: Mon Dec 30, 2013 3:18 pm 
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Want to break out of the friendzone. Tried introducing sexual topics in the conversation, she did not react well.

What is the best strategy?

Gambler's friendzone destroyer.

Hot and cold alternating supportive friend attitude with basic desintrest.

Or as close to a full blown freeze out as possible?

Thank you.


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 30, 2013 4:22 pm 
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Want to break out of the friendzone. Tried introducing sexual topics in the conversation, she did not react well.

What is the best strategy?

Gambler's friendzone destroyer.

Hot and cold alternating supportive friend attitude with basic desintrest.

Or as close to a full blown freeze out as possible?

Thank you.
No way is really effective.. there are ways that are better than 0% chance, like freeze outs followed by reframing new interaction in sexual manner.

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 30, 2013 7:00 pm 
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Want to break out of the friendzone. Tried introducing sexual topics in the conversation, she did not react well.

What is the best strategy?

Gambler's friendzone destroyer.

Hot and cold alternating supportive friend attitude with basic desintrest.

Or as close to a full blown freeze out as possible?

Thank you.
To answer that question we need some background story. Whats the deal with the 2 of you?
I think as already mentioned a freeze out is the best way. Because then you can reframe in a more sexual way.
Let her come to you. As soon as she contacts you again, make a definite date! Meet up with her and start with some SOFT kino first and slowly move forward.
When it comes to kino or starting some sexual touching to brake out of the friendzone i personally like to recommend this post to you. Its GOLD:

majik-s-guide-to-kino-escalation-vt163160.html

Helped me ALOT in the past.


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 31, 2013 1:06 am 
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There is no friendzone. There are girls who are attracted to you, and girls who are not. If she isn't attracted, talking about your cock isn't going to suddenly spark it. Meanwhile, you can be "just friends" with a girl whom you have chemistry with for months before dating.

Have an attractive personality. Either she'll want you, or she won't. Some girls just don't want you and never will. One of the best ways to break out of the friendzone is to have other options and make sure she knows it. If she's doesn't care, she doesn't care.

This is why you need other options. Sometimes, shit doesn't work out.

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 31, 2013 10:52 am 
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There is no friendzone. There are girls who are attracted to you, and girls who are not. If she isn't attracted, talking about your cock isn't going to suddenly spark it. Meanwhile, you can be "just friends" with a girl whom you have chemistry with for months before dating.

Have an attractive personality. Either she'll want you, or she won't. Some girls just don't want you and never will. One of the best ways to break out of the friendzone is to have other options and make sure she knows it. If she's doesn't care, she doesn't care.

This is why you need other options. Sometimes, shit doesn't work out.

Cant agree with that. Some girls will put you in friendzone even if they want you. But they pretty much park you in friendzone to keep testing you and to see if you got what it takes to be a real man. They keep telling you "we´re just friends" but when you play your cards right and act like a real man and go for what you want anyways (which is obviously her) she will be all over you. Thats what happened to me in the past.


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 31, 2013 1:51 pm 
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There is no friendzone. There are girls who are attracted to you, and girls who are not. If she isn't attracted, talking about your cock isn't going to suddenly spark it. Meanwhile, you can be "just friends" with a girl whom you have chemistry with for months before dating.

Have an attractive personality. Either she'll want you, or she won't. Some girls just don't want you and never will. One of the best ways to break out of the friendzone is to have other options and make sure she knows it. If she's doesn't care, she doesn't care.

This is why you need other options. Sometimes, shit doesn't work out.
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PostPosted: Tue Dec 31, 2013 2:23 pm 
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She has shown a few IOI's, did not refuse light kino, but still says we are just friends. Also, has a string o jerk bf's and bad breskups, but says she values loyalty above all and wants a guy for life.

In general I get a feeling there may have been some atraction at first and she has been testing me because she wants a serious comitment. Does this makes any sense at all?


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 31, 2013 3:56 pm 
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This does not sound promising, OP. This girl sounds very much like damaged goods. I've always avoided this type of girl, so I can't offer much personal experience, but I've read a lot of threads like this. They do not usually end well.

If you really want her, you need to start treating her like all of her other boyfriends have. She wants to be treated like crap because she has no self-esteem and thinks this is what she deserves. She'll sound out the words of commitment and loyalty and gentleman and manners - and then go fuck the nearest asshole that hits on her.

There is basically no way for you to "save" her. You two will most likely not have a nice, sweet romance. Maybe it works in your case, but if so, you beat the odds by a huge margin. I have never heard of it working out.
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Cant agree with that. Some girls will put you in friendzone even if they want you.
We're in agreement in concept, just disagreed in the language to express it.

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