Hello new guy here, hopefully you guys can give me your honest opinion.

I have a friend that I had a crush on, and knew each other for a long time (6 years) and she at that time considered me a "little brother". We would chat and talk like friends (dumb of me to start off like this). So about 2 years ago, I told my friend that I liked her, and she gradually drifted away and we would rarely keep in touch.

I began to forget about her (but kept her back in my mind) and started working out, dating other girls, and got a better paying job. About 6 months ago, we began to chat again. But I was the usually the one to leave her hanging. In the past, I would always initiate texts or chats. Now she initiates first and talks to me about her life and etc. I told her that its been a while and we should meet up and she agreed. We set a day to meet up.

Later on, we met up (its been like nearly 10 months since we last saw each other) and we went out for some drinks and she was telling me that she was really happy to see me and etc. The conversation led to her talking about how miserable her life has been and she started crying a little. I comforted her and kind of kept my distance. As we were talking, it was getting late and I asked if she needed a place to stay and she agreed to come back to my place.

We were both tipsy at the time and after talking a little more, she flopped onto my bed and I was about to sleep as well. Then she suddenly asked for a massage from me. So I went to the bed where she was lying down I slowly started massaging her back and I kinda became bold and took off her top and bra. So I was massaging her bare back for a couple of minutes and then I tried to grab down to her ass, and then she quietly said "stop~" and so I stopped....(maybe I was a retard or a gentleman). Moments later, she asked if I still liked her. I just flat out said maybe. Then she said, I don't want to lose you as a friend quote.

Later that morning, she asked what I was my plans for today. I said the usual work and then I asked if she wanted to have dinner with me. She said yes. But sadly I stood her up that day due to a sudden business trip. For a while I became really busy. And for the last month, she has been initiating contact and recently we met up again. I started heavily flirting with her when we went out to eat and drink. And later she basically rinsed and recycled the same scenario that was described above. She asked for a massage again, but this time I didn't make a move. She left that night but asked if it is possible to watch a movie her later this week. I didn't give her an answer yet about this.


Now I still have feeling for her. But is she just wanting my attention or testing me? I would like your honest opinion of what you guys think. Thanks for the help in advance!

She wanted you to glaze her like a Krispy Kream doughnut, and you stopped like the gallant knight that your are? How Heroic!
WTF! Bro, does she need to pull it out for you?
UUmmmmm She wants your wenis.

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Like....Seriously?!

You already took her bra off the other day, and she asks you to do the same thing again basically and you dont make a move? This has nothing to do with "being friends" imo. Cant get any clearer than this! Next time she is over, do the same thing again! But of course go for the close! When she at any point says "stop" you STOP! Take a step back and try it again a few minutes later. She is testing you i think.