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That explained a lot. Strong frames comes from an inner knowledge that you are the prize and that you don't get confused by any sort of actions or behaviours she throws at you. Not overcomplicating things and not overanalysing things. Basically alfa behaviour.
I can see you are a smart guy with an open mind, you should do very well with more practice. Yes a strong frame is the foundation of good inner game.
To say a final comment about framing, whatever frame you have may not "work" per se with every girl. But you overall results will be better with a consistently stable and correct frame than trying to microadjust for every new woman when they shit test you. Your frame should change and improve slowly as the result of a lot of data(in-field experience), not individual interactions which serve only as one data point.
I should take some time and just make out some basic rules of what I want to project. I've written up 10 commandments already. A list of basic rules not to be broken under any circumstance. I see that most of my problems comes out of the inability to be centred when new situations erupt and unknown factors emerge. My greatest loss this far in life has been not getting the girls I wanted. The irony in it is that their friends often have been chasing me.
I must kill the guy in me that are not willing to walk away when things get complicated. I must also get rid of my drive to be controlled by floating emotions that stir up waves of insecurity. It's a bit strange, because I'm a confident guy in almost every other situation than when it comes to women.
Thank you guys, not to be a sap, but this thread have learnt me a lot! Now I have to implement.
CHAT