Thursday. Work day is a bit stressfull. Have been going to Birmingham almost every day and I´m falling a bit back on my workload. Part of it is because I spend part of the day thinking about the night and have´t been focusing at work like I should.
More relaxed about approaching tonight than on previous occasions.

20:30 It´s raining heavy and I meet Jackal in Birmingham. He starts by having a talk with me about amogs and how to use my body to block them out of the conversation. After this we walk up Broad Street and Jackal points me to a HB8 at a bus stop. I go direct. Her reaction is good initially but doesn´t seem keen on handshaking me. I keep my hand there without saying anything. She becomes uncomfortable and goes for the handshake. She seems more nervous than me now. Some fluff talk and I am figuring out how to escalate. Conversation is energetic but I am not introducing sexual tension. Start thinking her bus will be here soon so I go for the number close before she has to leave. She´s got a boyfriend. I ask her how long she plans on dating him for. Get a laugh but still no number as they live together. I eject. Jackal sends me in again to get her to join us for a drink. No luck but I´m able to keep the reengagement on a good note. Still not doing very well after getting a no. Have to remember to ignore it and then push for it again in a minute or so.
We go to a pub on Broad Street where we get some tea. Jackal picks a table close to a mixed set and tells me to engage. I have HB8, HB4 and a guy. My first idea is that they are together. Are those her parents? They seem a bit young to be her parents and too old to be friends. I go indirect. Get HB8´s attention straight away. The other 2 look at me and I engage them in the conversation so they won´t block me. I move my attention to HB8 as soon as possible as Jackal had told me not to pay too much attention to amogs and just get them out of the interaction. I am surprised as her friends just stay with their conversation and I´m alone talking to her. Now I´m talking to her and am happy I had moved my chair closer to their table before start talking. I´m still too far to kino. The idea was good but I needed to get the chair closer. Jackal tells me to push our table closer. It´s a great idea and I do it but lose her attention in the process. Jackal gets me to reengage. She´s very opinionated and I hold my ground. Not sure if she´s just testing or if she is really that negative. She doesn´t even like her friends here in the UK… Eventually this goes nowhere. Jackal gives me some good pointers during the interaction but I am unable to take it anywhere.
After this set Jackal tells me the other guy was trying to pick up her friend and wasn´t with them. I missed that and was actually feeling a bit constrained by his presence. Had no idea he was actually on my side. Had I noticed this I would have had the courage to actually just sit at their table. Big mistake on my part.

Next set of 2 HB5´s is opened by Jackal. I join and just try to keep my girl interested in the conversation so Jackal is isolated. Her first reaction is not the best so I just keep the converstion light and social trying to buy Jackal as much time as possible. Eventually my girl wants to go and her friend goes with her. Jackal points out that I am too keen on keeping the conversation going and am talking too fast. He´s right. I could see she started becoming a bit uncomfortable at some point. I never allowed for any silence and barely gave her time to say anything.

Almost 21:30 and we walk down Broad Street. Jackal talks about isolating using physical movements. There´s a 3 set HB8, HB7 and HB5. Jackal just goes direct and hugs them. He then uses what he just showed me to isolate HB7. The way he does it just makes it look easy. I go to wing. Jackal seems to be doing great with a lot of Kino. I can isolate HB8 on the conversation but when I move closer she steps away. It´s very subtle but whenever I move a bit closer she pulls away. Jackal´s girl is laughing and it seems to be going well. I decide to just stay social with the 2 friends as I don´t want to blow the set for him. Eventually HB8 starts getting edgy and wants to take her friend away. I joke saying she is spoiling all the fun. She leans to listen to Jackal´s conversation, I call her on it and tell her she´s nosy. Get some laughs and am able to keep them for a few minutes more. HB8 eventually wants to leave and that´s the end of the set.

From here onwards I am very focused on just getting my transport on time to go home. Jackal reminds me that if I expect girls to change their plans to join me on instant dates I have to be willing to do the same and not just think about getting to the bus on time. Fair point.

This night really showed me I have a lot to work on. I got isolation with girls and couldn´t take the interaction anywhere. There were no real amogs in my way and had loads of help from Jackal. Can see that if I don´t escalate I go nowhere.

Positives:
Fun night
Jackal isolating the HB7 was a real eye opener

To work on:
Don´t talk too fast
Pay more attention to what Jackal does when in set

Friday
Work do at lunchtime today. Go to it and it´s fun with some nice girls but everything is very social. People are drinking a lot. It will be a fun night and there´s some nice girls but not the best environment to try any pickup. I stay away from drinks. Got a dinner with some friends tonight too and I´d like to go but again it´s not an environment to hit on girls.
Haven´t been balancing social life and work well with sarging. Part of it is due to not focusing on work properly during the day. Spend too much time thinking about sarging and what I can do to improve on my sticking points. Will have to organize myself better.

Meet Jackal in Birmingham around 20:00. Now that I´m here I´m happy I decided to come out with him. He says my mission is to kiss close tonight.
My first set is a 2 set on Broad Street. I go too high energy and blow it. Jackal engages them and manages to have a nice conversation with them.
We stay on the street as we are looking for a Christmas do. Open a 3 set and was about to lose them when Jackal steps in with a few pointers and I manage to keep the set for a bit. No number but one seems keen to have us coming with them to a bar.
The start wasn´t the best but Jackal was great giving me a few pushes here and there to keep the sets.

About 21:30 at S&L Jackal introduces me to a set and leaves. HB7.5 and HB5. This set seems to be going well and I start to relax. Not escalating but conversation is engaging. Jackal and Dolphin tell me something I don´t understand. When the guys from their group try to get HB7.5´s attention I go and check what it is. Jackal and Dolphin tell me we have to go. I go back and talk to HB5 until I can get HB7.5´s attention again. Jackal tells me to bring them with me. I try to do it but HB7.5 wants me to stay and asks me to stay too. It would be comfortable to stay but I trust that if Jackal told me to wrap it up I should do it. She gets my number but doesn´t give me hers. I like this girl and it´s not easy to go but I am not escalating and don´t see how I´ll be able to do it in this situation. Better to just join Jackal and keep practicing.

Another set HB6, HB8, HB7 at S&L downstairs I am going direct but the reaction from HB7 as I walk over is not good. I change my mind and go indirect. I stay for a bit but eventually can´t take this anywhere. Jackal tells me to reengage and ask each to give me a compliment. I do it and they compliment the accent, the way I am dressed which one finds sexy and my opening line which they had never heard. This is a good confidence boost and I end up just leaving happy with the compliments. Jackal tells me to reengage and get a number. I do it but can´t get a number.

After this we go to J&H. Here Jackal just turns into a rockstar. He is opening sets easily and girls are loving him. I open sets at the bar but run out of things to say and I´m just playing safe without escalating. Jackal asks me to join him on a 2 setwith HB5 and a HB7.5 with a great body. There´s a guy sitting by HB7.5. I take a few seconds to think how I´ll join the set as I am messing up too much. Go and introduce myself to the guy who ignores me when I go for a handshake. Jackal just told the girls I am his friend so I have to make him look good. I man up and go physical as Jackal has been telling me, grab HB7.5´s hand and get her to stand up. I engage her in the conversation and the guy is now the only one seated and he´s out of the conversation. He leaves and I take his seat. After this I don´t push the interaction out of the social sphere and end up leaving the set empty thinking about coming back later. Never saw her again.

There´s another 2 set in the smoking area Jackal had introduced me to. I use this set to engage a mixed set with 2 guys, HB7 and HB7. Everyone leaves but an HB7 stays. I stay with her and go for a number close. She´s with her boyfriend and says no. I just say “I´m inviting you for coffee, not a sh*g”. She laugs and I get the number quickly before anyone from her group notices it.
Jackals attitude at this bar was great. Seeing him doing so well really lifted my spirit up and made me push things more. Left this bar feeling great.

23:00 A&B Jackal is pointing me sets and I am opening them. The first ones don´t really go far but after the last bar I´m feeling good and am fine with rejection. A 3 set that Jackal points leads to a great conversation and I am really pumped up talking to them. They are lesbians for real and they are having a bit of an argument as it´s a love triangle. The HB8 had dated HB6 but HB6 is now with HB5. HB8 is sad and thinks about leaving a few times. She´s adorable and I get her to stay but don´t escalate or try to see if she also likes guys. Got too focused on being a nice guy and blew it…

Next set is HB6.5 that Dolphin points. I open and doesn´t take much to see it´s on. Instead of just kissing her I take her inside to meet her group. We grind in front of her group. A friend of hers is jealous and grabs her. I encourage him to get dirty. This gets him confused and he just doesn´t take it anywhere. I kiss her and leave to check more sets outside. See her later and use her to wing Dolphin. Dolphin is on a 2 set and I call his obstacle to join me and my girl. After a bit I think this new girl is amoging me. She keeps saying how pretty my girl is and asking if I´ll call her. I get my girl and leave. Her friends are going and she has to go with them… I kiss her more and go for a number but get rejected. Was a bit shocked and annoyed so didn´t even insist, just let her go. Should have pushed it more like Jackal told me. Felt too confident this one was a done deal and just wasted time. The next day Dolphin tells me she was staying in an hotel. This should have been an F Close. Big mistake from my part.

Positives
Seeing Jackal at J&H really improved my energy
For the first time I used physical moves to direct girls
At the end of the night I was feeling well with approaching

Negatives
Too much on my mind regarding work etc which affected my start
Missed opportunities due to thinking I had more time than I really did

Saturday

Yesterday was a good day. I´m leaving on holiday so I don´t expect I´ll be getting anything solid tonight.
Meet Jackal at 20:30 First sets on the street don´t work well. We arrive at the Mailbox. I find this bar intimidating for some reason. Jackal tells me to approach girls passing in front of the bar. My first approach bombs. She I very hot HB9 and is with 3 friends. I come on too insecure and lose them. Same for second group with HB8´s. Am intimidated to talk to hot girls. A single HB7 talks a bit with me but I am not confident at all.
Inside Jackal yells me to approach a seated set. HB8 HB7.5 HB7 and HB6. My start is good and I call HB7.5 on the “get out of here” looks she is giving me. I do start to waver and am getting ready to eject when Jackal tells me to sit with them. I do it and I´m in. I wouldn´t have even started this one of it wasn´t for Jackal. Conversation is going well and one girl wants to take pictures with Jackal. I am liking HB8 but am too chicken to escalate. Try a number and get rejected as she has a boyfriend. I push it and even fend off her friends in a playful way but no number. Jackal tells me to reengage and I go. Nice conversation but goes nowhere. Again I get stuck with no escalation. Another reengagement for HB7.5´s number is a no.
Around 22:00 we move downstairs for another bar at the Mailbox. Inside Jackal tells me to approach HB9 and HB8.5. I go and manage to talk a bit to HB9 before a friend comes to take her away. Encouraged by seeing Jackal yesterday I decide I have to get physical. Later on when I pass by HB9 I grab her and talk to her while holding her in front of her group of about 8 friends. Kiss her. She is a bit surprised by the kiss in front of her friends but laughs. No number. Reengagement and no go. I am just surprised that I managed to just grab the girl in front of everyone and talk to her. This really makes me feel good. Had the courage to push it with an HB9. My courage came mostly from seeing Jackal on the previous day, it was inspiring.
23:00 A&B I´m opening a few sets Jackal points to. One of them is a HB7.5 with male friends. Conversation is going well and I´m touching her arm and talking about her tattoos. Jackal tells me to sit down with her. I pull her and she agrees. I´m over the moon. If it wasn´t for Jackal I wouldn´t have done the isolation. This is a good boost and I insist on a kiss and get it. Also get the number. She has to leave with her friends and Jackal tells me to get her to stay. I go for it but no go. Tried to convince the whole group when I probably should have only talked to her. Really great point from Jackal. I should have not let her just go with the friends. When we were sitting I should have just pushed for her to stay with me.

Other sets weren´t really memorable. Got 2 more kiss closes with no real connection. Just pushed for it and got it. Not many sets at the bar and at some point I notice my mobile´s touchscreen is not working. I call it a day as I will have to get ready to go on holiday.

Just a summary of the past 2 weeks.

Jackal has been great and I have improved a lot. The last two nights were fantastic as they showed that results are possible. I just have to keep going for it.
When I started this I completely missed how much time it can take. Going to have to organize myself better as in the last few days I was getting stressed, specially with work. Will take a few days of my holiday to catch up with things. This will allow me to get back into sarging with a better mindset.

Cool.

When going out becomes a habit it becomes less stressfull, it does affect work concentration , u'll get use to it.

It's also inspiring watching you.

Jackal.

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The Jackal an Introduction.
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The Field Reports.
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The Lay Reports.
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I met Jackal at 18.20 on Saturday yesterday after doing some solo daygame. As a newbie and after not doing any approaches for 3 weeks, AA came back strongly and it took extra effort to overcome it.
Very good impression of Jackal – he definitely knows what’s going on. We hit the streets approaching both female and male sets. Learning points: opening needs to be strong – front when on the street. There needs to be good eye contact and confident hand shake. It really works. Re-engaging after first approach is not always easy. But it depends on the first impression – for example I opened a girl on Broad St and the opening was quite strong. As she walked away saying she has a boyfriend I reengaged and she actually had a good conversation with me and got interested. I rushed for her number too quickly and got ‘no’. The tip from Jackal – number is not what I should be focused on - you should work to extend an interaction to an instant data. Important lesson is also to enjoy the interaction, be genuinely interested and get her engaged in it. Let her start investing.
Later on, we went to bars and pubs, the field I have not practiced for ages. It was a very good learning experience – many epiphanies. Jackal started approaching many sets during the evening and pointed out some to me to open. I need to admit AA came back in bars, but still I enjoyed entering groups, talking to them, many positive interactions and interested women. My conversation/ influence skills have to improve to get success in the bars. I think I am on the good track.
At some point Jackal spoke to two guys who was chilling out in one of the pubs and they joined us to explore the city and sarge together. Good show of the Jackal’s leadership skill – growing the team in numbers is always positive.
It was a great experience with many learning points. Building up my confidence is very important for me right now. I really think that I have to raise the level of urgency for this area of my life.

23/12/13
It was only a female friends birthday night out on broad street (I've been friend zoned left it way too long, but she has some really hot friends). I wasn't planning on doing any game because I already had about 5 HB7 girls with me. Me and my Mate arrive at lloyds bar around 10;30 just before the rest arrived. After meeting then about ten minutes later, AA took over even though I knew after the girls. The problem was I couldn't talk at the start I didn't know what to say (why I couldn't beats me, over thinking again) I don't really have a routine maybe I don't start using one. Then as the night progress some how I just ending having conversation which really drove me mad, with these two HB7. One of then I was using light kino which seemed to work, she said she had a boyfriend but continued to flirt. About 12:00 we headed out to Risa; on the way I was holding her hand leading her, I stopped in the street and went for the kiss, then I gave her a high five (What the hell was i thinking!) but she wasn't going to kiss so in a way I saved my self. Later on in the club I left the HB7 for a while, It was a Monday night and there wasn't a lot of people (mainly girls in the club). I tried my luck on the dance floor with one HB5 which didn't go well. Going back to some of my group I pull the HB7 to the dance floor. she was griddling me the hold time and I tried going the K close again, she stated to really tease me. Going for the kiss then turning to the cheek. Part of me thought just leave it, but another just wanted her more haha. Heading for about 2;00 the other had left and it was only me my mate and the HB7 and her friend (why did she stay with me?!!?). The club began to close and we all hoped in a taxi. I should said come back to mine, why didn't I dont know. that one sentence could of changed the whole night! Ive got to start leading more!

I havent read all 60 pages, but do any of you guys actually get laid? Does Jackal ever get anything more than a kiss on the cheek by pretending it's his birthday? Does he still make you do embarrassing public role plays, and salute him? Is it true that the only person he's ever had sex with in his whole life is his arranged marriage wife?

New years Eve

Im not in to the whole drug scene and never have I touched them, but most of my mates love it (as do most people my age). So about 10 of us booked ticket for the Rainbow venue in Digbeth. I knew that every one including the girl would be on drugs. Getting to the club we head straight to the bar, I look around the room to see some sets, I've started to not feel any AA's but still the feeling of apprehension. Moving on to the warehouse (this place was big) I see a girl with a jazz hat (love girls with jazz hats). I move in taking the hat in a joking way, she comes over and tries to take the hat back I pull her in and ask her name (I felt no AA, its starting to flow). I get rejected and she moves back to her group, should have re-engaged. I'm starting to understand why Jackal wants up to re-engage PERSISTENCE WILL ALWAYS PAY OFF. I try a couple other times with 2 more girls which didn't catch, the dance floor is some think i really need to work on. I don't smoke either but my mates do, and I like the social side of it (great way to talk to girls). out side I engaged about 5 sets (I couldn't feel I was getting any where but I wasn't giving up). As I was going in I see a 3 sets and go in to this one with a hat (taking the hat of course). She was just drinking, she was on my level of thinking. I start talking to her and get some kino in and then ask her to dance taking her hand she then lead me through to inside. Yes persistence paid of until she feel down the stairs! her friends where trying to cock block me any ways and this just made it worse because they told her it was me! I helped her up and carried on to the dance floor; but she had gone right off me. It really effected me and the night just dropped. I carried on and headed back to my mates, whom one was dancing with some girls my friend know (for some reason I get really self conscious around girls my friends know). I turn to him and ask how did you do that? He says "Just bulls mate". How can my friend just pull like that? So moving about and try and dance with this girl next to us, I put my hand on her hips she carries on dancing then look back, for some reason I cracked and walked off (she didn't move away why did i?). After that I decide to call it a night around half 2 I was stupidly tried.

Pros

I did some good solo
I did pull
Feeling more confident in my self
starting to stop over thinking

Cons

Drugs bad for pulling
More PERSISTENCE!
Need to flow more, Just do the first set you see.

Thank you my friendly critic for your comment. I am flattered that you have read all 60 pages.

If you wish to continue making comments feel free to do so. I do not hold a grudge. If I were to meet you, I will gladly give you a hug and offer to buy you a drink.

Pick up is not rocket science. Its about leading, taking action, and being non reactive. However it involves a lot of hard work, discipline, and a 20 hour boot camp will not be enough to make a lifetime change. You may be more confident than myself. However for some it involves learning to develop new habits.

If you want to read about F closes. I can suggest the lay report section. There is a guy called CLOZER who is really good.

This thread is unfortunately only for those who wish to develop themselves. It is not done for titillation or to impress anyone. However if you are a successful guy than sadly my thread will bore you.

If you think my ego is being massaged in anyway. I can assure you that this is unintentional as this would be counter to my inner game goals.

If you wish for me to dislike you. Then you are barking up the wrong tree.


Cheers. Jackal.

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The Jackal an Introduction.
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The Field Reports.
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The Lay Reports.
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Tuesday, New Year’s Eve

Been up since 4am as I came back from holiday today. Should really get some sleep but it’s New Year’s Eve and I get the day tomorrow to stay in bed till late. I’m also curious to see if this week of holiday has had any impact on my AA.

19:45 Set up to meet Jackal in Birmingham. I first see him sitting at W with 3 guys. Next to them is a 2 set of an HB9 and a guy. I decide to open the set before joining them. This was more to figure out if I could do it after my week of holiday. Their first reaction is of surprise but I manage to get a nice chat going on. Find out they’re boyfriend and girlfriend so I wrap it up and go say hi to Jackal.

20:00 outside W, Jackal tells me to open a single set smoking on the opposite bar next to the bouncer. I go and get into a nice conversation. Conversation is going well but for some reason she seems to be getting a bit nervous about the interaction. Can’t figure out what it is so I eject. Jackal tells me to reengage and get the number. I first hesitate as she’s now talking to the bouncer but with a push from Jackal I go for it. Turns out she is married. The bouncer is in a good mood and the 3 of us engage in a nice chat. It’s a fun conversation but it’s not going anywhere as she’s inside with the husband so I eject.

20:30 outside J&H. Jackal opens a set of 6 girls and locks on the HB7 and HB7.5 next to me. I leave their side and wing by keeping the other girls busy. They keep making comments regarding Jackal as he’s escalating physically with the HB’s. Do my best to divert their attention but it’s 4 of them and they’re broken into 2 groups of 2. Can’t engage the 4 at the same time. Every time I engage 2 the other 2 start talking about taking their friends and leave. An HB9 comes to join their group. Would like to engage the HB9 but this 4 ugly ones are giving me too much trouble. Just about manage to keep the 4 obstacles there until Jackal decides to go into J&H. Got to be a bit more commanding with this type of obstacles. Tried to please them too much and wasted all my time on them.

20:45 We go the J&H’s smoking area. I engage a HB7. Her reaction is somewhat strange. Seems ok with the conversation but she’s too defensive. There’s and HB8 and a guy to her left and I get the impression they’re the reason why she looks uncomfortable. I eject. Jackal tells me to reengage and get a handshake. I do it and talk to HB7 again but it’s actually HB8 who tries to get into the conversation. Jackal wings and distracts the guy and the HB7. He even went around so they have to have their backs to me when talking to him.
HB8 is friendly but I assume her boyfriend is there and she will be put off by having seen me talking to HB7. HB8 has to leave and while leaving touches my shoulder and tells me “see you in a bit”. This confuses me as I thought the guy would be her boyfriend.
I join Jackal with the guy and HB7. This time I try to wing Jackal and start distracting the guy. Turns out he’s HB7’s boyfriend! HB8 is the one who was alone… I messed up. Should have checked how they knew each other earlier. HB8 is at a dinner so it will take a while for her to be back. When Jackal wants to leave I go.

21:10 Mailbox at a bar I engage two blondes: HB8 and HB9. Hard set to crack at first but I hold my ground and manage to get into a conversation. HB8 is feisty and is taking all my time to control so I make her my target. After a while I feel I am losing ground and decide to eject so I can reengage later on a high note.
Just before the reengagement I am with Jackal in a set of 3 guys. I leave them to go for the HB’s. HB8 gives me a bad reaction which I manage to turn around by calling her on it. After a few minutes one of the guys that was with Jackal asks me if I’m hitting on his girlfriend! This was why she was so edgy, her boyfriend was there… Change things up and get into a nice conversation with boyfriend and girlfriend. Get too comfortable chatting to HB8 and the boyfriend and end up not going for HB9. I have to improve on this. Sometimes I don’t go for the hot girl as I don’t want to spoil the interaction with the group. This was somewhat silly as HB9 was actually friendly to me.

By 22:20 we wrap it up at the A&B. I am tired and decide to go home and get some rest.

Being New Year’s Eve I was expecting lots of sets but there weren’t many people around. Guess everyone was at house parties or with their families and people came out later. Unfortunately I was too tired to stay out. Sets today were tough to open. Find people more relaxed close to midnight than early in the evening.


Positives:
Managed to turn some sets around after initial bad reactions
Found it easy to keep conversations going
Pushed myself to go out even though I just wanted to go to bed

To improve:
Go for the hot girl
Stop thinking about why I can’t get the girl and pay more attention to her actual reactions
Stop wasting so much time with obstacles
Posture
Improve eye contact
Talk slower

Start: 19:30

Weatherspoon

First set: at the Spoons 3 girls at the table – young HB6.5, HB6 & HB5. Introduction, question about places to go, banter – commenting in funny way about trying to get pissed on non-alcoholic drinks. Good reactions – they were laughing etc. It was more about my mind-set as I was in a playful mode it was coming easy. I saw they enjoyed the interaction, but did not go for close after they told me their age – 18, 18, 22. That was a shit test as they also asked me about my age. I should have bantered about them looking much older etc. and I should have number closed them.

Street

Some approaches on the Street – still not enough power and confidence in the approaches – therefore just short interactions. Always go with good energy, be curious about the other human being. Confident handshakes etc. – more practice required.
Bars
There were many interactions, good pushing from Jackal and other guys, which I really appreciate. I need to start pushing other guys to do the stuff more as well. The sarging in the bars was packed with quite positive and good reference. In bars positive energy and playful mode is important as people over there are in this mind-set.

The Actress and the Bishop

Still feeling AA – entered the bar to get drinks. Chat to a couple and asked them how do they know each other and they went silent. They met via online dating most likely and were embarrassed about the fact.
Later my energy dropped and I was thinking about leaving, but Jackal pushed me to chat with people and be social with paid dividends as I started enjoying the interactions more. Being curious etc. But still not in the playful mode I wanted to be.
There were to middle age ladies – one of them HB7 with very hot body. I had a conversation with her for a long time – she was manly talking about her experiences while working as stewardess. I tried plenty of kino on her. I isolated her from her friend. I tried to take her on dance floor but she resisted. I think she exactly new what was going on. Her body was willing, but she as an experience woman was controlling the interactions. I went for number close anyway but got rejected. She said she is happy in her marriage, she has two children etc. Anyway I enjoyed the interaction.

The Jam House

2 girls set at the piano – HB6 & HB7. I opened them with confidence. I wanted to talk to both of them but the HB7 not reactive – with strong bitch shield. The other one was friendly – easy to chat with even when I was quite uptight and talking about boring stuff. I did some some kino with her - Brudershaft – german drinking tradition. They left as some friends came over. Later on – the HB6 seemed to be still interested in me as they were dancing really close to me, but I was focused on another set so I did not explore this option.
I moved to sets we met at the Actress and Bishop HB4, HB3, HB4 & HB6. Danced with the HB4 and made myself moving and leading the dance which gave me more confidence. As she did not seem to be keen to dance with me anymore I went for HB6 and enjoyed dance with her, but she needed to leave me for some reason. But it seemed that the enjoyed dance very much and was giving me eye contact. There were some other groups of girls HB6 & HB5.5, so I grabbed the HB6 to dance with her. She was already drunk and it was easy to escalate while dancing, but she did not want to a direct kiss – cheeks only. She was going away. I grabbed her couple of times and pulled her to myself, lift her up by her ass which she really enjoyed. Then she wanted to leave as per her friends and told me to stay where I was to which I replied that I am going to be at the table so she should join me later. That did not happen as she came back with her friends and started to dance with them – both males and females. As I wanted to leave (1.45am) I decided to go for number close. While she was talking with her male friends on the dance floor I came and started talking to her regardless. She was responsive – I asked her for the number which she typed into my phone. Good stuff, I will try to date her for practice.
It shows me that I need to keep going up to the end for result as I have learnt from sport.

End: 1:45 Jam House

Positives

Number close
Playing the game non-verbally
Playing to the end

To improve

Cocky and funny – be more relax talk about more fun, random stuff etc
Positive energy, confidence and leading
Energy – real energy. It will be useful to eat something during long sessions when energy is dropping the willpower is dropping too. Next session – take some energy bars.
Feeling the SPAM of the venue more – try to get in playful/ relaxed mode. Open all the time; do not take too long breaks.

Cheers for the reply Jackal. You should note that I said I did not read all 60 pages. So, basically, only one guy in your crew gets laid? Interesting. Anyway, I'm still looking for the other answers to the questions I asked.
Thanks.

We got a key borad warrior over here, hows jacking off over your key borad every night going?

Friday night

Wasn’t really in the mood but made the effort to come out. Met jackal and the others in Brindley place in one of the bars next to the pincher and piano. My wing opener a 3 set sitting by the window and I join (a bit too early) wasn’t that good first one of the night, came to the conclusion if I don’t find them very attractive it doesn’t interest me very much.

After That I join Jackal who was with two girls who were teachers didn’t have much to say so I kind of just watched what he was doing, it’s crazy how her keeps going with the conversation. Anyways I ended up having a laugh with them, me and Jackal left and went outside where he made me open a group having a fag wasn’t that keen and just made light conversation with them. Still wasn’t feeling it until we went back in and Jackal said go dance in the middle of them lady’s. I though hell why not made me laugh!
After that we left and headed to another bar, I went to get some cash before hand and me and another wing joined him and a few others later. After joining them I opened a 3 set didn’t go very well got bored and left.

Another wing told me to join Jackal who was talking to 3 girls around my age; I was straight there said “is this guy brothering you?” Jackal said to sit down (love how he does this shit) so i sat next to one of them on the opposite side of Jackal. Her told everyone else a fake name and told me her real name. Jackal picked up on her IOI’s (I fucking well can’t see it, apart from a few things which I’m starting to learn). Any way’s Jackal left me on my own (my heart dropped but I didn’t leave) Ended up being really fun as all the other wing’s including Jackal kept coming over. I told them I didn’t know half of them (which I didn’t).

Jackal was trying to get me to number close which I was trying too, he said we were going and got them all to give him a hug then I hugged the one I was sitting next too. Jackal said to kiss her (WFT? you mad? Was the first thing that went through my head). I did it (later I asked him how he knew she would kiss me, one reason was because she was standing there and because you don’t know unit you try). I the end spend the while night with her and had some fun (We started the party in this empty night club, dragged everyone who was sitting down to the dance floor). Jackal said to take her to the toilet I flaked I couldn’t understand how she would come and missed an F-close (tried a hotel and it was fully booked, by then the sexual tension had gone down). I’m going on a date with her in a couple of days I hope it goes well I really had a fun time with this girl.

I got thing to say, if jackal wasn’t there this wouldn’t have happened.
now to start doing when my mates are about.

Pros
Closed with a girl, I know I CAN DO IT haha

Cons
Started to redecorate my room, so I couldn’t take her home!