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Freeze her out for now, it's either one of the two:
1) She had the intention to sleep with you, but regrets doing so as it was her first time doing such stuff.
2) She's rethinking everything over and needs some space.
Alcohol is always bad for a first hookup, you have to know that. Same exact situation happened to me last week, except I re-fucked her in the morning to substitute for the last night's bad sex (also no boner because of too much alcohol).
Just give her some time and try again when you think it's suitable. There's no period requirement to wait in order to call, but give it at least 2 days.
PS: Try calling, not texting.
Thanks man this is very helpful advice. So I have two updates to add and maybe you can shine some more light on this. So after I sent her the last text(7pm) I talked about above she texts me about an hour later(8pm) saying she would rather meet up tomorrow(sunday) or sometime next week. I take a while to text back(830) and say that tomorrow sounds good I also say so there is no confusion between us I tell her if she wants to be sexually exclusive or open since I plan on fucking her with no condoms soon. She just texted me now at 2am. I haven't read the messages because then it will show I read it lol, but I peeked at it and in one of them she mentions her imessage was off(sounds like BS, but innocent till proven guilty), so I think she apologized. I don't want to metal about where she was tonight, frankly I don't care but I do want to know if she had sex,
Would it be unreasonable to ask if she had sex? Especially if she wants to be exclusive?
Where do I go from here?
extra info
Last night while we were fooling around my Ex came up in conversation and since this girl is bisexual I suggested them meeting. She said she was down but doesn't want me messing around with her on my own. So I think she is hinting at being exclusive.