Hey guys!
How do you fake it 'til you make it? I am not confident at all, people say i am greatlooking, but i dont know how to become confident!
I want tp approach girls, get laid and just enjoy life. But i cant do anything of this i am too nice, so i cant get girls.
How to become confident in general and change the way of thinking?

Thanks!

That's easy to answer, get out play the game it changes who you are. And seriously once you get over the first month it really starts making a lot of fun, no matter how much you might suck at it

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Life is not a Disney Movie. It's a frickin jungle out there...

Don't fake it.

Take up the mannerisms, postures and attitudes of naturals and gradually learn to be comfortable in how you are and how people perceive you. Until then go out and get experience. Gradually you will learn a lot and make the mannerisms, postures and attitude second nature. Once you reach that level you won't be self-conscious. It's an experienced game. Get out there, approach and if you feel you need it go for the AA test(Approach 20 women a day).

You are going to have to fake it to start but as the first guy said it's all about pushing your comfort zone. baby steps if you cant do better. Start approaching paid help, move up to old ladies, then eventually hot chicks. Set number goals for approaches and different lines, this wont be easy but it's possible, if you are dedicated. The biggest thing is consistency and diligence, but you have to be dedicated, PUA isn't a casual endeavor to start.

Also read as much material as you can while you work on your approaches, daygame, nightgame, online game, social circle game

Check out this TED Talk:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ks-_Mh1QhMc

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Take intelligent risks and you will find the opportunities that others miss.

Amy Cuddy's talk is one of the best things I have seen for a while...just brilliant.
Thanks a lot for sharing!