Hy everyone, quick post to vent some frustrations and to ask some advice. Long story, I know but bear with me...

Basicly I've been seeing this girl, HB 8. We had a couple of common friends about 4 years back and we recently met at a party and hit it off. Ran some game on her there (though I am still learning) and did pretty well. Only problem then was that we weren't in our hometown and we both were staying over at friends.

Couple of weeks later (we both had examns and not much time to spare) we met up again, and once again, hit it off. She did came over to my place and spent the night but she was a bit too drunk to really escalate beyond kissing. Basicly I kiss closed her and was well on my way to f-closing her but I broke it off because I wasn't sure if she was sober enough to have reasonable judgement. The fact that she was just going through a rough break-up made me cautious as well. I'm not searching for something steady but I didn't want to deal with a whole lot of remorse the morning after either. In any case, the day after she couldn't remember most of the night, so it's probably a good thing nothing serious went down.

Flash forward to tonight: she was in town, so I pushed for us to have a drink in a bar. She was more then happy to oblige but had already plans with some other friends. She invited me over to join her. I had some doubts about that, mostly because I was too tired to run good game with a bunch of people I didn't know (all men, btw...) but figured it was probably better then spending the night in front of the TV.

Anyway, went there, and another friend of mine was there as well. Joined the group, blended in and while I wasn't the live of the party (too tired) I was 'present'. She started kino-ing me right from the get go and while I usually would bounce in situations like that, I simply couldn't because she had already planned to meet another friend of hers later that night in the same bar. I figured we might as well stay there and have some fun with that other friend of mine (hadn't seen him in a couple of months).

Problem: as the night progressed, she started flirting with both me and my friend. Normally I'd just AMOG any other suitor and try and shoot him down but this guy is a friend and I didnt want to be a dick. Because I was rather tired (and he has a great natural charm) I started losing frame and my grip on the situation. She kept on flirting with both of us but slowly the majority of her attention was going towards my friend. I salvaged the situation at one point by being a bit more forward and giving her some SOIs.She reciprocated so I figured I was in the clear.

Still... the remainder of the evening she kept on flirting with both of us, and gave both of us a lot of IOIs. She was basicly playing us against each other and since there weren't any other girls in our group I couldn't return the favor. I should've opened another set but aproaching is still a sticking point (pretty damn good at comfort though ) and I didn't feel up to it.

Anyway, I ended up ditching them both. Eventhough she whispered 'please stay' in my ears I felt like I was the thid wheel.
I'm pretty annoyed about the whole thing though and wouldn't mind salvaging this shit. She had already invited me (and a couple of other friends) for some coffee, tomorrow at her place but I'm not sure how I should play it from here.

I feel as though I have two options: either I ignore the entire thing with the risk of ending up in the LJBF-zone, or I calll her on her behaviour and make a bit of fuss about it. In that case I'd probably spin it in a way that doesn't involve any frustrations about me being out-gamed.

Any suggestions? Should I go see her tomorrow? Do I send an angry mail first? I guess the easiest thing is to just drop it but since I'm pretty sure this one could become a 'friend with benefits', I'm actually willing to put in some extra effort.

Okay, to me this sounds like this chick got some game going on. So I will say go and see her, and be perpare yourself if she do have company with her. If she going to play the same game, all you have to do it take away her attention, meaing try to become the center of attraction. Doing this your not going to make you look like COCK BLOCKER or feel any kind of fustraition in her surroundings also hit her a few NEG lines (something like "You're looking nice in your out-fit. I know that you can look better, why you choose to wear this outfit"), all her attention is going to focus on you. And when you do, you have to keep her interested in you all the time or she will get really board with you. Keep her talking, make her laugh, flirt and close. If she tell you that she wants you to say a bit longer tell her "look let go somewhere a bit more quiter, I want it to be just me and you" and see what happens. Holla @ your bowy & let me know how it works.

This will be great practice for you.
Dont whatever you do, dont call her out on what she is doing, it wont help matters, only make them worse. She's playing game and eating up the sexuel tension. Show her what you got. The post above is it right, you gotta be the centre of attention instead, an make her work for yours. Remember you have to isolate this girl, when you feel its the best time to do so, bounce to another location. Invite her, if she refuses, show her less attention then ask her again.