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Do you have a sister or female cousin that you could bring to the party? If that's an option, you could arrive with the sister or cousin and tell both of those girls individually that you can't really be seen flirting around in front of your shy sister/cousin, and that you want to take care of her during the night and make sure she has a good time.
Unfortunately I don't though that's a great idea! My sisters are both 10 so that isn't really an option.
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It's not as hard as it looks. You just better limit your amount of alcohol intake to think correctly and logically. I assume that as a typical house party, these two girls will not talk to one another, but I may be wrong. May be wrong. I would just be social and talk to EVERYONE at the house party. Have a good time, don't escalate too much, keep it simple, like hugs, some little flirty thing here and there. It's all about calibration. Of course make it seem innocent, don't do it blatantly if the girl is 15 feet away. I am speaking from experience.
It's one of those house parties where everyone talks to everyone, it's a very small house so there's unlikely to be more than 20-25 people at the place. Staying sober is definitely something I plan on doing, not escalating that much is a good idea too, though at the same time I don't want them to think I'm not interested.