What im trying to learn is day pick up more than anything. When i see a hb at a store or in the street i want to have the ability to smoothly go over and get her number. In the past when i would see guys go over and try to pick up on girls i would laugh to myself and say what a dumbass. specially when they would get blown off. I relize now that they have more balls than me and i am the dumbass, plus they're going to get more girls than me cause its a numbers game. So when i go up to girls in the day i feel like everyone around me is thinking what i previously thought. So i dont speak as loud as i should fearing other people will hear me. I know the whole thing who gives a fuck what other people think. How do i get my brain to think that? Im good at going to a bar or party and getting girls no problem. the only reason im telling you this is because my mind set is those are the girls that are looking to be picked up. does anyone else have this problem? what kinds of thing should i be reading?

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I'm throwing seven different kinds of smoke!

The thing is that you already know the answer and you are certainly on the right track.
Become more social overall, are you a social guy, - do most people like you?
Are you a positive person? What you got going on for you so far?

See brother, you will improve as a person and in no time you will be able to come up and talk to girls.

The hardest thing is to commit. The most important is to stop making up excuses (like i do sometimes) and just do it.

Readings, Books, all that stuff - you do no really need it. Especially with direct. Most important is that you practice.

Use your knowledge to become more social, fun OVERALL + meet a ton of people.

And there are so many cute girls on everywhere- just cannot pass on that.

I am sure you gonna bet better as long as you want to.

To tell you the truth reading book is not going to help you get over your anxiety feeling, this is something that you have to come to terms with yourself and know that you could just walk up to a female and talk with her. But there is a catch to it. Just as everyone knows its our body language and our approch. Reading books is just going to tell you the samething. Note this not all the time you going to win, but there are time thats your going to lose, and its okay to lose. You just need to step your game up till you get better, thats all. This is going to sound funny, but picture her as one of your bowys or female friends that you feel comfortable talk with, and not picture her as the girl on the street. See if this help. Holla @ your Bowy.

These guys have already hit on it. It seems what you have is an inner game/AA problem. Do you have a problem approaching them or with everything? Until you are completely comfortable with yourself the girls are going to see that you're hesitant and they're going to walk away.

However if you go in brooding confidence, big smile on your face and the mentality that you have this one in the bag, then you will. You have to conquer the obstacles in your mind before you can attempt the ones anywhere else.

I hope whatever it is that you can figure it out so you'll progress.

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Seduction isn't making someone do what they don't want to do.Seduction is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already.

To be honest i knew deep down the answer to my own question. I guess i was hoping to get a magic word that would make it easy. if its not hard its not worth doing! it is getting easier though through time but i still have those sticking points. thanks everyone for shooting me strait

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I'm throwing seven different kinds of smoke!

Yeah bro, it is always hard to face yourself.
But you will succeed because you have desire to.