Good afternoon puas and thanks for reading, merry christmas to all. !:)



2 questions i would like to share with you guys in order to get some feedback...


1- Whenever i feel like approaching a HB or talking, no matter where and what time it is, day or night, i get this "stalker" feeling haunting me....(even tought i am aware all men approach HBs...i just dont see myself doing the same idiotic conversations with HBs like all other men, because i dont feel thats who i am) i dont know if this is normal or .....just AA



2- Whenever i feel there is competition for the same HB.... i tend to become an "excuse artist", and im turned off immediately, as in my mind i have the tought that the relation risk-reward (sex) is not worth it...




What do you guys think about this , has anyone come across any of thse before ?




Opinions are very welcomed !

Hey man, here's a short answer to your questions...

1. If you don't see yourself having the "idiotic" conversations with the HBs because "that's not who you are", you should think if you see yourself having sex with those HBs and if you are the guy that will be having sex with the HBs... This is how the game is being played, if you want sex without the "idiotic" conversations, go to a hooker

2. Nowadays there is little risk in sarging the same target as another guy... Unless you live in an area where people carry guns and shoot each other for fun...

Bottom line, you have to accept game for what it is, and the players in the game (HBs, PUAs, AMOGs, AFCs) for what they are... The Game will not adapt to your needs, so you have to adapt to the Game... You are making excuses for yourself to avoid approaching. It's tough, you will get rejected more times than you will succeed but you will grow a thick skin along with your PUA skills...

Great feedback.



Dont get me wrong regarding the first point. I dont think HBs are stupid (although many of them are) but its just how low men will go for sex itself.... I feel i cant go so low, but as you say, i may have to adapt to the game, since he wont of course adapt to me.



I once saw this HB firing to a guy that used to go real low with HBs... and she said something like "Its unbelievable how low man can go a piece of ass".... and i remember he replied something like... "And you like it."


Nevertheless i just cant seem to draw the line between whats real and whats arrogance........



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The lowest I've seen guys sink in order to get laid is either paying for it (gifts count as well) or faking an entire relationship just to have somebody to sleep with. PUA tactics are downright honest compared to that... at least as a PUA you are giving the target excitement and a fun experience compared to what the regular guys have to offer... and arrogance is when you talk down to your target, confidence is when you feel equals and that you have nothing to prove to her...

1. Don't do it for the hookup, do it for fun. The main problem you are having here is that you are mainly going for the girls and not for yourself. Don't be that type of guy. Instead, just have fun drinking/eating/dancing or whatever you're doing and the chicks will come to you. At least that's what I do. I never focus on how many girls I can score per night, but at how many people I get to know. I like meeting new people, but that's just me.

2. That's an excuse for not approaching. If you are talking to a girl and a competitor comes in, that's when you have to prove yourself better. I was at a bar last week and I was gaming this girl, but this guy kept holding her and dirty dancing with her. Simple, I just grabbed a Doodoo shot and told her to take the olive from my mouth...and here you have it, we were making out and I ended up winning. I just get too excited when there's competition, it makes me go for the girl straight ahead.

As the guy above mentioned too, imagine yourself banging that girl. If you want that, then go for it and never look back. Not trying is a 100% wasted opportunity.

Great feedback guys, very helpful.





Going back to the genesis of the topic i still feel some of this "stalker" feeling when i approach an HB in a different city, area, place, country......





Any piece of motivational knowledge that can help handle it ?

Regarding the "stalking" feelings...

The Guy A Scenario: Do girls' faces light up like a Xmas tree when a creeper approaches them? Of course not.

The Guy B Scenario: Do girls' faces light up like a Xmas tree when they meet a normal dude who seems to have his shit together as he smoothly chats them up? Yessir.

Be Guy B.