So I had a side chick and I caught feelings for her...not enough to make her my main chick. But enough that I am writing about her on a forum. After we "split" we didn't talk for a while. Then we talked and got close again, but then she pulled away. Even though all contact was initiated by her, she did this yoyo shit twice before I started ignoring her, that shit annoyed me, but beside ignoring her I never let on that it bugged me.

Then she would try to get me jealous by talking about guys and shit, I just laughed it off, I don't care about other guys, cause I know she still has feeling for me, her friend told me. Then last week she texted me that she had a dream about me and wanted to know how I was. I replied, "guess that makes me the man of your dreams huh, lol...I'm great how are you kid?"...she never replied and I Havnt heard from her sense. could she have lost her phone, or is she trying to ignore me....and I know girls are crazy, but why the fuck would she initiate contact just to if ignore me, if it was to get some validation or ego boost she didn't get it, it's just got me perplexed.

So i have decided to freeze her out. Wondering though if I should send her a text on Christmas like I do everybody else in my phone or be a super prick and just ignore her until she gets her head out of her ass? I know I shouldn't care, and I should just replace her, but it's kinda bugging me. And obsiously my feeling for her are clouding my game. And the moment of weakness came just before writing this post when I really wanted to text her, but I'm not gonna do that shit.

Any way, suggestions or thought on this particular situation are welcomed. Thanks bros

Don't do it..


Ignore her. Trust me dog..

And once she finally text you... Ignore that shit.. Seriously.

Let her reach out a second time.

She needs to feel what you'e feeling now so she doesn't do it again.

So wait it out. Don't be weak and go looking for an excuse to hit her up (like christmas). And when she finally text you. IGNORE THAT SHIT no matter what it says. Don't text her back until she reaches out to you a second time. All girls follow the same pattern. It's weird how they all operate alike.

Peace & Love

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I agree with Joey on this. I think you should completely ignore her. Whenever she texts, ignore her. Don't text her or contact her in anyway. If she keeps text-ting you, wait for about the 3rd or 4th text or go further than that. Contact her when she stops trying to contact you.

Yeah you guys are right. I'm gonna ride this shit out until she shows some more motivation lol....she texted me today to tell me her grade in our math class....I didn't reply. I'll just see how bad she wants to be back on the team, and if she don't want it bad enough..it's time to have a draft!! I guess I've just been spoiled. I want my side chick back!! But she's got to put in the effort! Thanks fellas. Merry Christmas!

only reason you're getting these feelings is because she's becoming "unavailable" to you. Her attention will revert back to you in due time

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So she texted me yesterday,"Merry Christmas my love, I hope your having a wonderful day,"....I texted back 4 hours later (I didn't check my phone until then) "hey Merry Christmas Chiquita bonita" then she wrote back instantly "thanks," and I sent her a funny pic of scarface but that was it. I'm still not going to pursue contact with her. I mean I'm not her "girlfriend" we don't have to talk everyday. And I'm not going to read much into the text. After all it was just Christmas. But I just wanted to get some opinions on what my next move is?