It seems like most people miss the whole concept of NEGGING! I'm sure many people have tried explaining it before but it's a very important topic because it's totally misunderstood and it can be very frustrating looking at all of the confusion.

I've seen guys who try to go out there and "Neg" women but only end up completely INSULTING her and trning her off....


I've seen some psycho feminists groups on Tumblr saying that Negging is used to degrade women and make them feel bad about themselves blah blah blah blah blah!!!!!


Holy Shit!

Let's get straight to the point... No Fluff... No BS!

When you NEG a girl.. even though it has the word NEG it is not meant to have a NEGATIVE impact on your target, it's NOT supposed to lower her self esteem.

A Neg is supposed to initiate stimulating conversation.. the people who used NEGs correctly are few and far in between. So when you're talking to a woman and you use a NEG it has an immediate impact because most D-bags go up to her with a lame ass cliche like "hey babe can I buy you a drink???". A Neg is supposed to bring a result that involves her wanting to KISS you and SLAP you at the same time! because you're challenging her. It's a playful verbal sparring match that only the sophisticated intelligent beings know to use. It's a form of playful witty sarcasm the only be used by a true gentleman.

NEGs are actually positive... it's a compliment to a woman but you're showing her that you're not down on your knees trying to please her. You're not handing her all of the power.

Let's go over the definition in Urban Dictionary

"A light insult wrapped in the package of a complement. Used by pick-up artists to gain and maintain the attention of women who possess uncommon beauty (9+). These women are immune to standard complements."

A LIGHT insult... Some examples you could use...

"You are pretty hot <--- Compliment ...for a short girl <--- Light Insult (or tall girl, or blonde, or brunette, or whatever.)
"That is a really cool shirt ,<-- Compliment , considering the color." ,<--- Light Insult

Or one of my favorites from "Casino Royale"

James: Don't worry you're not my type... <-- this would be the light insult
Vesper: Smart?
James: Single.... <-- this would be an unexpected turn in the conversation... similar to a compliment.

In fact if you want to know what negging really is watch James Bond movies and how he talks to women. If you can be in that mindset you'll be finding a lot of success. Notice all of these examples of Negs leads to one direction, then the conversation takes an unexpected turn that shocks her... and will catch her off guard... and in an end result she'll be happy she found a guy that "gets it".


Now NEGs that you absolutely don't use are...

- Negs that make fun of her for being fat.
- Flat out insults not wrapped with something positive behind it.
- Calling her an ugly bitch and you're glad her parents died in a car crash.

If she runs away crying then you negged her wrong. If she punches you on the shoulder playfully you negged her right.

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i've always thought this was common sense but i found out ALOT of guys don't understand this.....good advice

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Good post! I used to think about this but have forgotten about it.

Getting a GF has given me that abundance mentality that women are attracted to, and more girls show interest in me nowadays than ever before, so I have not really been thinking about how I interact with them, negging or not. I am just self amused, social and chatting with them. Could it be that negging comes naturally if you do this, or can it be a tool to use to amp my game up even further one day?

true I am sorry so many people go out and insult girls

it's meant to set up an SPAM of mutual respect and playfulness

my favourite situational opener was when I saw a woman order a sundae in a bar I sat beside her and said, "Hey, did you break up with your boyfriend or something?"

the response was great! she was very interested in talking to me
playful and funny, playing off a well known stereotype

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I've seen this used badly quite recently actually. Seen a guy go up to a group of women and flat out insult them. He basically told one of them she was hot and her friends were ugly. Not cool.

wow smh... I don't understand how some guys don't grasp the concept.

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I've noticed other guys do this before. This dude that I know vaguely actually used this line on my friend: "you know I never really noticed before but you're actually fun to be around"

WHAT??! Her reaction (at least what she told me) was "what the hell was he saying? that I wasn't fun before? what a bastard).

Now his mistake was saying it in a serious way. Wrong. Negging is really more of a cocky funny thing and I hope I don't come of as a jerk when I say this but I think I have it down. I can call them fat or ugly or whatever but I do it with a smile on my face and with positive body language. People who are new to PUA always fixate too much on WHAT you say rather that HOW you say it.

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Something is terribly wrong with this statement. Guys play punch you on your chest or shoulder. Girls play punch your arm or biceps or tap your forearm. Even masculine women except maybe for lesbians play punch your arm.

You need to sarge infield some more bro.

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your shoulder is part of your arm.

You need to take an anatomy course bro.

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The bicep or triceps is NOT your shoulder and so is your forearm. Here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arm

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Lmao... ok you're right pick up guru. Girls NEVER punch a shoulder NEVER! It means they have a dick. Good information.

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Nah.

Girls ALWAYS play punch (or sometimes tap) a guy's arm that made them feel good. Girls tap a guy's shoulder to get his attention when a girl is from behind.

NEVER is a wrong word to use since there will be very few exceptions. Lesbians play punch your shoulder, chest or abdomen most of the time when you trigger a lesbian's primal instinct to laugh or giggle.

This is the PUA Lounge for new ideas or fresh takes on old ideas. You simply paraphrased the meat of your thread without proper attribution except for the Urban Dictionary definition. Even your James Bond neg example is not quite 'it'.

Paraphrasing old PUA material does not make one a good seducer. Lots of infield experiences will give more credence to your threads where you are trying to lecture us on community common sense without even giving credit to where credit is due.

It would be cool to see you integrate what you have read from established PUA materials with infield experiences. All I see from your threads or video are/is just a rehash of what's already out there.

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I'm in a relationship. When I say something sarcastic my girlfriend punches me in the shoulder playfully.

The fact that you came in this thread and complained about such a small detail seems like you coming off desperate for attention... it's just weird you would nitpick over such a small detail and categorize ALL women to aim for your bicep (which is a weird place to hit a man anyway).

Everything has been repeated. In the next few days I'm providing people with my story of 7 years of in field experience, set backs and finding the perfect relationship for me. I appreciate any of you constructive input... and I will come from personal experiences more often, I just think the way you came into this thread was kind of petty and attention seeking.

Besides... this info is BASIC to an experienced PUA... but i've seen a lot of people telling stories about how they negged a girl and it just went all wrong. So there are some people that need to know.

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That play punch to your arm from girls triggers kino escalation that is non-creepy. Kino escalation gets you laid.

It appears that you are basing off your advices and rehashed theories on just ONE girl. Not cool. And now you're butt hurt that I'm giving a contrary opinion to your reality on body language and what the PUA Lounge is for. Again, NOT cool. The lounge has rules. I get irritated when a forum member repeatedly violates these rules.

The experienced PUAs around here know that girls "hit your arm" when they're having a good laugh. It's the rule of thumb rather than girls hitting your shoulder. Guys do that most often along with hitting your chest or abdomen.

Here's a girlie video where the play punches to the arm (biceps, triceps, both biceps and triceps) starts at around 0:30.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bnBW-9j3MvQ[/youtube]

Bro, a dude can have 7 years of experience sarging ONE girl while a serious seducer will have 6 months of experience sarging 600 girls and the amount of infield exposure will almost always subtly show the GREAT difference between the two.

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A neg means NEGATIVE HIT. It is meant to 'lower' her self-esteem.

I dont know if this forum has gotten worse or I've gotten better.