Hi guys,

I am new to the forum, and pretty new to the game. Just to do a quick sum up, I got out of a two years relationship a couple of month ago. I have had about 6 or 7 girlfriends + hook-ups, usually pretty hot (HB7 or , but I was friend with them for a long time before. I am not a natural, have some huge AA spikes sometimes, and when I am tanned/grommed/suited, I'd say I am a 7.

I read the Game, the MM and I just started Magic Bullets, and I watched a lot of David D and style's videos.

Now for the field, I have started to game this colleague of mine (yes I know, very dangerous, very tricky etc...). She is an HB9 about my age I'd say (26), and she's pretty introverted, but I am sure she gets hit on all the time.

So to make it quick, I have completely ignored her for the first 3 weeks she worked at the office, while I was chatting and laughing with everyone else (and I made it visible), especially two guys who work around her. Then she opened me saying she loved the shirt I was wearing that day. I just thanked her politely and kept talking with the guys. Then for my birthday I brought a cake I made to the office, and she came to me to say I was an awesome guy, and we chatted a little.

Couple of days after I started engaging her in the conversation when I talked with the guys around her, being cocky funny and teasing her, which I believe she was responsive to since she laughed and teased me back. So now we have the occasionnal chat and laugh, and sometimes I see her staring at me while she's on the phone. There was an office party to which she didn't come, and I invited her to another party 2 weeks after (after inviting the guys around), but she politely declined. I'm always confident and dominant when I speak with her, which surprised the guys around, but I really don't want to come off as needy.

So I'm confused about what to do next, since I don't really have the opportunity to game her outside the office. It seems that I'm still in A2 and that I need to build more comfort, but since I cannot be too direct because of the office environment, I don't want her to lose interest in me, if there ever was some

What do you guys think I should do ?

She's already rejected once. Fuck the A2 logical male bullshit and go with your natural feelings which are telling you that you want to fuck her. Get her out for a work-related drink, even in a group if you can. Normally wouldn't recommend the group but she has already rejected. Try gaming her if she comes out for the drink.

Thanks for the reply !

I went back in today and it turns out she's just a f*cking gold digger, she suddently showed a lot more interest when she heard what car I was driving !

That's a huuuuuuuuuuge deal breaker for me, especially because I am actually broke, and that she probably won't be interested when she finds out. I'll try to bang her anyway at the next office party, but now I clearly don't care anymore.

And to be honest, if trusting my natural feelings would have been usefull in the past, I wouldn't read all these books/videos/field reports

Well it turns out she's kinda cool, so I have decided to keep gaming her but I have some trouble with calibration.

We speak once every two days I'd say (I volontarily ignore her while laughing with the people around us every once in a while). I always try to be cocky funny, playful and challenging, which I believe she is responsive to since she always reengage the conversation and always laugh to my material. I led her to ask if she can move in with me to replace my former roomates, which I refused saying that she would probably end up falling in love with me and that would just make things akward.

She definitely still have her shields up though since she systematicaly refuses to jump through my hoops, saying playfuly ''don't play with me like that'', and she is teasing me back, asking me if I think she can make me happy, and if so, how ? I think that she is just testing me, and that if I reveal my intentions right now by answering this kind of questions she will lose interest. Or may she expected me to ask her out ?

I negged her pretty hard after that, saying that she always seems to be yelling at someone when she's on the phone (we were on the phone as well), and that our colleagues were just too polite to tell it to her. She seemed to be pretty upset by it, but I already know how to fix it playfully so I don't have to apologize if she is still mad tomorrow.

First question : How do you think I am doing so far ? I really feel like I am moving forward, but maybe I'm just staying still. I read a lot of post saying that I should really take my time considering the work environment, so that's what I am doing

Second question : Where do I go from here ? Now I know her a little better so I could start giving non-physical compliments to balance the negging and constant teasing, and to avoid the ''goofy guy'' label.

Anyway, please shoot if you are inspired !