Hey guys here's what's up I posted a thread of the same subject, but thought It might be helpful to make a more specific thread.

Here's what's up. Not last summer, but the summer before I met this girl things were great, but I didn't realize there was an ex factor and how badly she was hung up. So I was dead in the water before I even started. Things started going downhill, and in the midst of this I had to get my blood work updated for boxing. It didn't come back clear there was a chance it was cancer thankfully it wasn't. At the time my mentality was needy as fuck I won't argue that. My thoughts were I can't handle my situation let alone losing her I thought by chasing I'd get her back Wrong!! When I stopped pushing she came back, but the relationship was doomed.

Fast forward to today a little over a year later. I flipped on fb she was on I thought about re-opening, but wasn't sure really what to say. If I wanna stand a chance at anything I gotta show I'm not the needy piece of shit she knew before. This idea just popped into my head I'm not outcome dependant I don't have emotional attachment to her anymore nor do I have anything to lose. I just thought it could be a fun challenge to see if I could make a comeback. I figure anything worth doing is worth doing right so that's why I'm here asking for advice. I'm gonna be talking to her on fb I have her #, but its been so long I don't know if she has the same number anymore.

As always any advice is appreciated!!

Hey man, glad your blood work came through okay, I've had a lot of experience with cancer in my life and It's a shit disease inside and out. Stoked for you. Anyways what I would do if I were you is just re-open it as if its a brand new set. You haven't talked to her in over a year... a lot can change in that period of time... show her that you're completely different from that guy she talked to two summers ago in the best ways possible. Re-open her with one of the standard canned openers on FB (I never realized how easy it is to open with those on FB or via text before I started trying, they work almost better over FB than in person), and just run solid game- throw in some DHV stories, preferably ones from your life, but they can be canned as well (and feel free to hit me up with a pm if you want some solid canned stories), conveying the qualities of an alpha in the way that you interact, and working solid push pull- alternate having her jump through hoops then rewarding with qualifications and teasing/negging, then continue your solid game in person. Like I said treat this as if it's a brand new set and give her the opportunity to treat you like you're a brand new person. Good luck buddy.

-Maverick