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If you keep no contact nothing will happen. Keeping light contact something may or may not happen. I think you did pretty much everything right. I agree that you did a good job of not chasing. The only twist in the road was the friend showing up.
Yeah, why is that? Doesn't look like she is ever gonna drop me a line. Been almost 2 months and heard nothing... I don't think she has dated anyone since me tho... Seems like girls have way too much pride to reach out if it was only a short term dating thing... I'm gonna hold out on contacting her for a bit longer though, but if I do make contact, what should be my mindset? Usually I just build comfort and once the comfort is there I just set dates.. This situation is weird because she basically rejected/dumped me and feels like I'm just a lame if I reach out...
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One other note; Girls are always ready to get down. Rebound sex and all that. However yeah she is probably still in the recovery from the last relationship letting it slide for a bit while you meet other girls as you said is probably a good call.
This girl was weird... She was way too NICE and it threw me off, probably gave me the wrong vibe... Like usually I can drop some texts to get them thinking of sex but this girl seems to take them the wrong way... She hates most guys and thinks their creepy and douche bags, pretty much her words... So I just kept it playful with mild flirting... And when we met up (first date nothing really happened) but she showed A LOT of interest after that date and started texting me way more and kinda admitted she was gonna miss me because I was away for a month for work... Second date seemed to go well (aside from her friend) because I at least made moves but then she suddenly loses interest? Clearly some shit from that night either turned her off or brought up some bad feelings about her ex...
And I know girls are down for the rebound sex and all that but I don't think I'm at that stage with this chick, she wouldn't go for it...